I'm often walking along a street and see an attractive girl walking in the opposite direction. (I'm not just talking about 'hot girls' per se, I just mean any girl with a non-fat body and a cute-ish face). As the girl walks past my eye is irresistibly drawn to her lovely face and lovely body, and I can't help but endlessly fantasise about kissing her and having her love me and take my virginity.

Now, in these situations I would love to have her eye me up (or even just glance at me to acknowledge my existence as a human being), but of course it never happens. It seems girls have an innate ability (almost a compulsion) to callously completely ignore anyone who walks past, particularly if they're male. :S

Given that I've already been to the gym on a regular basis and have made sure my clothes & hair are stylish, and I've improved my face as much as I can, there's nothing I can really do at that moment on the street to improve my appearance. Is there anything I can do, while walking past her, to make it more likely that she will glance at me and thus give me a tremendous confidence boost?

If I look at her and try to catch her eye, she might think I'm too interested, and deduce that I'm desperate, and therefore (through retarded woman-logic), undesirable. If I instead pretend to ignore her, will she then assume that I'm not desperate, and therefore possibly desirable, and therefore worth swivelling her precious little eyeballs a few millimetres just to look at?

Also, if I smile at her, I might look 'too interested', whereas if I frown and look moody, she might think I'm mysterious, thoughtful & unavailable, and hence interesting, again through retarded woman-logic.

What combination of facial expressions & actions do you guys think is most likely to increase the chances of her brightening my whole life just by glancing at me?


Also, why do girls have this compulsion to callously completely ignore anyone who walks past, particularly if they're male?

Have you done the newbie mission? Look, smile, say hi. Friendly is not low value. Eye contact is very common and you won't come accross as too interested. If you want more people to look at you, dress prominent. Be comfortable being the centre of attention (even on an empty street). It's mostly an attitude.

OK I'll try that. But why do girls have this compulsion to callously completely ignore anyone who walks past, particularly if they're male? I notice guys look around a lot more, in fact I rarely walk past a guy without him looking at me, I don't know why girls seem allergic to glancing at people though. :S

After all, we are all human beings, and it would be nice for girls to acknowledge other people's existence, particularly pretty girls. It's not only super-hot tall guys who deserve to be glanced at. I look at any girl, not just hot ones, I don't know why girls have to be so snooty.

Do pretty girls have any idea how much they can brighten someone's day just by looking at them? It's like a billionaire giving a £50 note to a homeless starving tramp, it means so little to the millionaire but it means so much to the tramp!

Because we don't want to get approached by losers of whom we can't get rid of. This is the basic reason. If you wish to read into it, Mystery has written some valuable stuff about it.
The good news is: when we would be able to get rid of you, you're not a threat anymore. Being friendly is always a great start. Following just applies to girls you cross while walking. If you say "Hi", you keep walking. That way women won't think you're gonna cling to them. If she's responsive, you can make conversation.

I see, but how can you tell that a guy is an unattractive loser without even looking at him? Do you have psychic X-ray vision or something?

As a girl, what % of guys you walk past are good enough for you to swivel your eyeballs to look at them?

All men are potential clingy losers. I just don't take chances. Some men actually start following you around. They walk alongside me (uninvited!) while I do grocery shopping for example. They're impossible to get rid of without me being a bitch. It doesn't even matter what I'm wearing or how I look. I'm average looking and kind of sloppy and not responsive AND looking the other way and still some guys find a way to follow me around.
Girls get approached a lot, so if they miss out on one attractive guy by not looking, it's no big deal.

I wouldn't know how many men I look at. If I make eye contact, I'm just friendly and keep walking. I don't get to know the people I make eye contact with. But I often chat if it's a normal guy who isn't desperate. I just try to filter out the normal ones.

A magical way to stop a guy being a clingy loser is to actually want him and love him, have you ever tried doing that? Or are you somehow incapable of ever loving anyone unless they're a super-tall, super-hot, super-confident alpha male?

Seriously, why do you care so much how desperate a guy is? Particularly when you must realise that every guy wants sex equally badly & desperately, it's just that some are lucky enough to get it regularly, and you call these guys 'non-desperate' because they aren't quite as desperate as the rest?

Would it be liberating for you to realise that all men are equally desperate, and all desperately want sex, even the ones you think aren't desperate? I guarantee you that if you took one of these confident sexy alpha-males (who you think aren't desperate) and deprived them of female attention for a year, they would become super-desperate - and then you wouldn't want them, just because they had been unlucky enough to go through this hell! So why do you reward guys for being wanted by other women, and punish them just because they're not lucky enough to get sex a lot?

It's just like all people are desperate for food, and it's just that some are lucky enough to eat regularly, while others have to starve. Are the starving ones automatically inferior just because they're unlucky enough not to have food? Do they deserve to be punished for this unluckiness by being denied further food, which would actually make them far less desperate if they were to get it? If giving money/food to a tramp, do women make a conscious effort to give less money/food to the particularly desperate/hungry-looking ones, to deliberately exacerbate their desperation?
That must be a wonderful ego-boost for you, knowing that you're so highly valued and wanted so badly! Imagine how horrible it would be to constantly be completely ignored by every guy you encounter? Perhaps if you keep that in mind, you'll actually appreciate all the attention you get, rather than moaning about it?
These super-lucky guys whom you look at - what is it about them that wins your attention? Is it only the tall, hot ones you look at, while ignoring the inferior short, ugly, useless ones? Or are you saying it's completely random?

And how do you know how hot a guy is without even looking at him? Is it a sexy way of standing/walking which I can try to emulate?

Again, don't take your woman hate out on me.

As I've said before, it's not bout tall, hot men, but you don't want to hear it. I don't care how desperate others are, I'm not some free hooker passing out sex to desperate men. I want to have a great day myself, preferably without clingy losers. I'm explaining this shit to you so you can learn something from it. And, more likely, so that others can learn something from it since you won't accept the truth of YOURSELF BEING ABLE TO IMPROVE.
Again, i'm not complaining about attention. YOU ARE. It's your topic.

Anyway, when a guy is not looking, that's when I look and determine whether I want to talk to him or not. Whether he's attractive to me and I want to approach him.

lol.. It's called presence. You seem to be unaware of anything that you can't physically see. Which is the key to every issue you have.

If im walking down the street, a women looking down will life and turn her head toward me and lock eye contact until we walk past each other. It happens to me every day. Wether im in sweat pants and haven't had a hair cut in weeks or in the best clothes in my closet.

its energy my friend.. And the base of energy is in your thoughts. Thoughts are electricity: Energy. I love playing with other people's energy using my thoughts, you should give it a try. You thoughts are not positive and happy so why in the world would anyone wanna give you a milli second of eye contact?

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Generally, the hotter the girl, the more willing she is to smile, at least in my experience. Women who are not quite sure if they are hot are the ones with more to prove and give u a cold shoulder.

That doesnt mean that the hot girl is going to stop and talk, no far from it.

I would forget about any one womans response and as practice, smile at every woman you see, hot or not. You'll make them feel good and you will gain confidence when more women smile and say hi back.

Doesn't always have to be about the pickup. Smiling wont make u look needy, chasing her down after she walks by might, and thats one of the worst things you can do, chasing a woman down from behind.

But the more you smile and say hi, the more they will do the same. I bat about .5oo with return smiles and about .300 with hellos.

Or maybe your face is just sexy, so they don't care how you're dressed or what your hair is like. Lucky for some.

the gay forum is online somwhere, google it

I stated they'd be looking down.. Or in another direction and some how always turn my direction without seeing me there... Presence, google it. Or girl will be having convo's with they're girls or boyfriends at a club or on the street and just lose focus and look my way. And i put on a lot of weight this winter.. Just an fyi

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