We knew each other for about 2 months, when I told her I liked her, and got LJBF. During the time, I'm pretty sure I DLV'd myself plenty of times. She said she likes hanging out with me, which I believe, but she doesn't see me that way. Since, I've not made efforts to contact her, though she has contacted me a few times. My thinking being that with time, I can recreate my image. Am I on the right track? or is it a lost cause? Right now she is out of country for winter break, but it is possible to contact her through Facebook. Should I re-initiate contact now, or wait till she gets back when semester starts?

lost cause, find other girls, this one does not want to sleep with you

My man, there is no way to get this girl, the only POSSIBLE way is if you stop trying. Contacting her won't work, answering her normally won't work. The only thing that could make her feel something towards you is her knowing you're with other girls and in demand and not interested in her. This can be done by loading pics of you with alot of girls on facebook, it WILL NOT work if you're talking to her and seemingly bragging about getting girls, it will be seen as petty.

However the underline message is that you need to forget about this girl and enjoy the thousands of other girls that are exactly like her in your area.

thanks guys, I guess it is time to move on. Most days I don't even think about her, but some days are hard. Hopefully I'll find someone to replace her soon.