Hey guys, I got laid last weekend with an HB8 combining everything I learned over the last two weeks in and out of the forum.

However, isn't the whole purpose of the game to get girls to chase me?

After that night, we haven't texted/called each other at all. Is this normal?

I'm confused for the first time since I learned about PUA. Please help!

If you call her (not 300 times), it's not a chasing. If you want to see her again, just call her.

Man you should have atleast sent her a txt.

She is feeling like a slut...

You had sex now you dont call.

Bad on your part.

Yeah but you have chase first .

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Did you build any comfort with her or did you haphazardlPy move from attraction to seduction? If you did the latter, this would be 'fools mate' according to MM. In English it means she's experiencing buyers remorse in that her conscious is making her feel dirty an slutty for allowing herself to be seduced too quickly. If u like her & want too see he again I'd have contacted her the very next day so as to assure her it wasn't just another fuck n' chuck for you. The longer you wait the greater her guard will be (eg. "why is he contacting me out of the blue like this? Ah he must be horny").

That said, it's not impossible she too just wanted a hookup and nothing more from you. Point is you won't know until you talk with her again.

You mean you didn't give her a post-lay phone call / text? i.e. the phone call that lets here know you want more than a one night stand

I agree with the above poster.. you should call or text her ONCE (twice at most). If she gets flakey or doesn't return the call, then it's time to put it out of your mind and move on.

-Wolf

Thanks for all the replies =] I still have so much to learn...

I just texted her so hopefully she doesn't think I'm an asshole =[ fingers crossed.

Good luck. Just remember to prefer calling (she can hear you and other benefits) over texting anytime.

PUA is a very powerful tool, and in time you will learn how to wield it. I remember when I started, I did not understand its affect on women. I had not had that ability with them before, so I didn't understand how much I could affect a girl who might care about me. I was constantly told it was a numbers game, and it was all just a strategy, that I lost sight of why I tried pua in the first place. I like women. They are not objects to me and they are not goals. They are fascinating creatures which I enjoy meeting and dating and sleeping with. Strategy might help me get them, but I learned to never make all of my decisions only from strategy. Don't fall into your old habits, but if you meet a girl you like, don't be afraid to date her or get in a relationship. Always keep that option open for girls you click with.