Hey guys last night i opened 15-20 sets with direct game and i felt that i had good body language, tonality as well as emotion when opening.
Only problem was that the sets weren't hooking after me going direct and often gave me the cold shoulder or just walked away after me saying they were cute or whatever.
I need help with this, but rejection isnt a problem for me as it only makes me stronger.
Does anyone have this problem, after going direct they tend to get rejected or get a cold shoulder from the girl?
Thanks

Hey mate.

I have done direct and if i would be single again, i would go direct again.

I never got the shoulder. But it is normal that people dont hook. some will hook, others wont.

The way i dealt with sets and groups, i was very direct in everything i did. I never really addressed anybody in the group, nor tried to entertain them. In sets exactly the same.

i would walk up, didnt matter the angle, sometimes just straight through the group. i would get her attention, like hey, excuse me. If somebody else would look, i would say: i only need her. Then she would look and i would say what was on my mind at that very moment. Something like: i think you are sexy/gorgeous/asslicking/tittysucking whatever. I want to get to know you better or just meet you again, just you. Then i waited for a response. If none was coming, i would say: this is my number. Call me when you feel like it. And i would walk away.

Sometimes they just plain said no. Good to know, i moved on. Sometimes they said maybe. then i replied that there is no maybe. You either want this or you dont. I usually took a maybe as a no or an attempt to manipulate.

Most of the times though i got a yes and we hooked up. Sometimes i got a look like: what the fuck are you doing in my direct environment, just to be followed by them back to the dansfloor.

A club i used to frequent a lot has 'bikini' dancers. Every once and a while, the girls just got dressed and joined the club instead of disappearing. One night i had seen one very hot brunette. I just went up there. I said: i think you are very hot. I want to get to know you. There was like 4 guys and a couple of girls next to her. The guys were looking at me with a grin from ear to ear. at that time, i did feel stupid. It was like i shitted my pants. But i looked her dead in the eye when i said it. She just shook her head and i just said: too bad and walked away. 5 minutes later, there she was, dancing behind me. Every once and a while i got a look and a smile that couldnt be misunderstood. I told my buddy and we thought it might have been by accident, as we did hit hte dancefloor. But she kept on following me. We never hooked up, because one of those grinning dudes was her boyfriend.

anyway, hope i did help a bit. If you have more questions, shoot!

cheers

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night looks something like, get eye contact, approach direct, no hook, move on, get eye contact, approach direct, no hook, move on, again and again, and again and again, do a good 20-30 sets, even if they do hook, don't stay longer then 5 minutes, keep proofing and moving on, hook into the girls that re-approach they are good targets, if no girls re-approach you, go re-open friendliest sets and have fun, back turns in the club while being direct have nothing to do with interest level, it is almost automatic, all you want to accomplish is spike something in any girl that has any interest so you catch her eye, then move on and let her see you doing it to other girls, you just want as much proof and jealousy that you can build as fast as possible, focus mostly on the girls that re-open you

direct day game, expect almost every set to hook, stop them first, explain the frame of the situation, give the statement of intent, tell her what you want, and hook in and start getting to know her (qualification), you will know really fast if she is interested or not