Hi Guys,

So 2 weeks ago I got the number of the receptionist at my dental office. There was some good texting back and forth.

On Sunday I text her this
"We should get together sometime soon, hows your week looking?"

She texts back:
Ya for sure! But this week is crazy and I'm starting school FML"

On Friday I text her:
"How's the weekend for you. We should grab a drink"

No answer from her 8 hours later, so I text her:
Should I take the no answer as not interested?

I know I fucked up guys. Is there any way of re-couping this???

Thanks.

There's something there, but also weirdness. You asked fairly well, but next time give a specific time and place. She agreed that yeah, you should see each other soon, but she gave herself a reasonable excuse.

Give it a week or two then try again. Give a time and place for her to be, make it sound fun.

Yeah, indeed, patience amigo!

The week isnt entirely over yet and you are almost all over her. I know how it feels when you dont get an answer, but you should be more patient.

And yeah, that last text was a mistake. It shows insecurity. Dont do it. If she isnt interested, she will not text you back. If she is interested, she will get back to you eventually.

You know, when you played your cards (you ask for a meetup), its fairly easy to see if they are truly interested or not. Are they doing what they say they are going to do? Its a hell of a time to wait for an answer from just one person. But you should be honest to yourself and think: if she is interested, she will contact me back. Otherwise not. You can always try one or two weeks later.

In order to get rid of that icky feeling, i usually went for multiple girls. While 'waiting' for a response, i went out with another or on the lookout for others.

cheers

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DL is right, just give it some time and go after different girls.

Thanks for the help guys.

send her this

"...is what I'd be saying if I were desperate"

LOL

Her not texting you back is NOT a big deal. Now if she spit in your face, slapped you and poured her drink on your head I would under stand why you will feel like its something you can't recover from. She just didn't pick up her phone and type one sentence to respond to you... WHY are you tripping out?

And wheres the rapport building? You simply just asked her out and didn't further conversation afterwards..

Call her and just talk for the sake of talking. You don't have to ask her out right away.

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I will be going to the dentists office again in a month. Its guaranteed she will be there. Should I wait to see her in person, or should I go ahead and text her in a week?

If she doesn't reply, I would wait till you see her again. Don't mention the not replying, game as usual.