If you really are a virgin, do you tell her? Is it a turn-on ?

Unless you're sarging at a bible camp, no. Women want to be taken care of during sex, they like the idea of a man with experience.

Also, if you've fucked a bunch of women, they obviously thought highly enough of you to let you shove your dick into them, so it reflects well on you.

If it comes up, I'd say something along the lines of "I'm not gonna sit here and say I've laid 50 women like most lame guys. I've had sex with 11 girls, I tend to be kind of picky with the girls I sleep with. I'll take quality over quantity anyday!"

Be casual with this topic. Most guys will get all serious and try to come off as joe cool pussy magnet, and girls can smell that shit a mile away. If you're casual, fun and make a joke about it (like that quality over quantity line) it comes off as much more believable.

I disagree with saying you've had sex with 11 women. Your first time having sex is going to be awful, simple as that. You're going to probably have a hard time getting it up at first, then you'll either blow your load in 5 seconds or be cum-shy and last 3 hours, both of which are bad. You'll probably only be comfortable with one position to add to the boredom. This is going to be terribly obvious to a woman, especially if you've supposedly laid 11 others prior to having sex with her.

hehehe! I'm adding this to my bucket list.

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I have to return some videotapes...

If you confidently say " I'm a virgin.. I just havn't found a girl i felt was worth me having sex with"

I think that more of a turn on than anything in the world because it becomes a game for the woman to see if she can get you

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but since it's my first time, it WILL be bad and she'll know...

If you practice the physical act of sex with an escort, you'll get to to learn the ropes and it will be pretty straightforward when you get lucky enough to do it with a real girl (i.e. one who actually wants you and who looks decent enough for you to have sex with her).

Don't let it bother you that you lost it to an escort, just forget that you paid her and focus on the fact that you're doing it with a sexy girl! Also no-one will ever know you saw an escort, because the agencies are very straightforward and anonymous!

Don't do this escort shit, imho. Learn how to lick pussy, give her a decent licking before the act, then she won't mind that much when you go off early. If you just picked her up, don't tell her, it's not helping you. If you two dated for a while, you can - if she's nice, she could potentially find it sweet that you want her to be your first. Just make sure that you keep your frame as you tell her - Don't act like it's something you are ashamed of.

There are here some fucked up advices.

@J19891- Did you know that some girl has a fetish of taking the virginity of guys.

@danthedan - Wtf? escorts?

Dont lie because a girl will notice.

Now seriously Fuze nailed give it some rep he gave some decent advice.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Agreed. +1 to you, Fuze.

Two issues with this ... First, "you'll get to to learn the ropes and it will be pretty straightforward when you get lucky enough to do it with a real girl (i.e. one who actually wants you and who looks decent enough for you to have sex with her)" Lucky enough? ..... This isn't the best way of thinking and if you want to get laid anytime soon I suggest you change that.

Second... Escorts bro? Never pay for what you can get for free... I also feel this kind of thing will ruin yourself esteem.. If you are forced to pay an escort to take your virginity, what kind of message does that send to your subconscious?

And thanks for the rep and props guys.

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Why do you feel the need to say anything? Has she asked you? Do you want her to lead and show you how to 'do it'? How do you know you'd be bad at it?

So you basically want to tell her that you are virgin so that her expectations are lowered?

She has already selected you, she is down to sleeping with you, So just be quite and enjoy the passion.

Read up some materials on how to arouse a woman - just google it.

Good Luck,
Marc

SOME women have a fetish for taking men's virginity. Not all. Not most. Not even one in ten, I'd bet.

Personally I'd been watching porn daily since I was 10 when I lost my V-card, so I thought of myself as "watching film" like you would before a boxing match or a football game. I went in with a gameplan, I went in confident, and I made the girl cum twice.

I realize this isnt everybody, but don't tell the kid he HAS to suck at sex the first time he does it. Just enjoy yourself and she will enjoy herself as well.

If this is a girl you 1. Don't want to start a relationship with and 2. Already have rounded second base with multiple times and are pretty much sure to get sex regardless, go ahead and tell her. Otherwise you're taking a risk. Some girls might not care, but IMO your whole angle is to make the girl feel as secure and comfortable with you in order to get access to her vagina and telling her you're a virgin would be taking a step backward.


I ended up dating the girl I lost my v-card to started off by telling her I'd had sex with like 14 girls. Once we were in our relationship I'd always say "you were my first", kind of fucking with her (she was super christian) and she'd get mad and tell me I was an asshole. Then eventually I sat her down and told her "no, you were really my first" and had an indepth conversation with her about it and she loved the fact that I hadn't had sex with any other girls. This was when we were about 6 months into a great relationship and in love though so she was in commitment mode.

Right now your girl is in "I wanna fuck joe cool pussy magnet" mode. Don't tell her youre a virgin, don't get nervous about sex and just go in there smooth and confident and do whatever comes to mind.

LIKE A BOSS.

Mate anyone who gets to have voluntary sex with a sexy girl is fucking lucky, just like someone who wins the lottery is lucky!
Well I obviously can't get sex with a sexy girl for free, so it makes perfect sense for me to pay for it.
Not when you already had zero self-esteem!
It obviously sends the message to me that sex with me is evidently so undesirable, awful and unpleasant that nobody will do it without either being extremely desperate (i.e. obese & ugly and themelves unwanted) or being paid £400 for it, like it's a chore/torture. But then I already knew that anyway.

My experience in life has always been that if a girl looks even vaguely decent or has a decent personality, she automatically turns out to not be interested in me. Only a few girls have ever been at all interested in me, and they've all been fat, ugly, desperate and insecure. Then I have to see all these decent-looking guys on here whining about how tough it is because they have sexy girls looking at them and giving them eye contact, and they're "not sure what to say to them". Er, how about "Hi, I'm sexy, you're sexy too, let's have sex."

So it hardly changes anything if I visit an escort, I just get to experience the physical side, and my God it feels amazing, with that soft skin, soft lips, cuddles and eye contact. And to think, you guys get that free every day, plus the emotional euphoria of knowing they want you and that your body and sex drive actually have a purpose!
I'd rather have voluntary sex with a decent-looking girl than have all the rep, props and money in the world, and yet still absolutely nothing - funny that!

lmao... I forgot I was talking to you bro

Yea never mind.. Pay for the escorts! You you have NO chance anywhere else.

This was advice to the original poster... You(dan) go do do anything you want, it doesn't matter. I'd be surprised if an escort would even do anything with you.

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