Hi,

I'm dan and I a newbie to these forums. I have been studying PUA for about 2 years now on and off. I have had some success with women, but this one has me baffled any help would be appreciated. (btw if this is posted in the wrong section I am really really sorry and please don't ban me.)

Basically about 5 weeks ago, this very good looking girl who is 15 was flirting with me quite massively. For instance as I was walking down a hallway, she was in front of me and kept glancing back at me and pulling her skirt up as far as she could. Now I know this was for me because I was literally the only one there, it was completely deserted apart from the two of us.

So at the end of the corridor she then puts her finger on her lip and does a kind of I'm lost and a stupid girl look and walks one way then another. Now I know she wasn't lost because she had just come from a lesson and she has been at the school for 3 years now, she was just trying to get my attention.

At this time I ignored her because I had a girlfriend. After that I would catch her looking at me and she would get quite shy, when i walked past. Subsequently my girlfriend dumped me and I was starting to enjoy the attention this other girl was giving me.

So as it happens I needed her to get something for me, so one day as we were walking to class, I asked her if you could help me get it. She was so excited that i asked her it was quite funny. She then started to talking to me for about 5 mins then we had to go to our lessons.

Finally the next day I see her again and thanked her for helping me get my stuff back. She seems quite confident and starts initiating conversation again, but only briefly, because it asked her if she wanted to go for a drink some time. She says yes and gives me her number. I was quite nervous and didn't really smile, but as I left I gave her a wink to say that we were cool.

Now that happened on a friday and on sunday i texted her asking if she wanted to go before or after christmas for a drink. She asks who is this?. I say my name and she replies oh yeah i don't think that's a good idea.

I can give you more info if you want, but I think this is a good start.
If anyone can give me some advice it would really help me as I am totally confused. This has nothing to do with my looks (not trying to sound arrogant) as I was voted best looking in my school and am a hollister model. So it has to be my personality (unfortunately!)

Thanks in advance!
Dan

PS I am 18 so there is a 3 year difference here and just to let everyone know this would not be a sexual relationship merely two good looking people enjoying each others company.

lol 15. I don't think PU techniques would even apply.

how come?

I don't think this is a good idea..lol

seriously

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for the record,

pua is not a good route for girl's who still sleep with their teddybears and keep a journal tucked under their rainbow brite pillow.

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Ok, if pua is not a good idea, then what do you suggest?

Thanks,
Dan

lol

i have a 13 year old daughter.

i can't in good conscience give you advice on how to bang a 15 year old.

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As I have said in the inital post, I am not trying to bang her that would be weird and disgusting. I am trying to have a mature relationship with her.

Then treat her just like you do your guy friends... Simple as that. Look at her and act toward her like she is you best guy buddy.

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Ok, I get what you are saying and thank you for the advice. I will try to explain a bit more. I want to have a mature relationship with her, but I want to take care of her and treat her well, I suppose you would call it 'love' her. I do not 'love' my guy friends so I am not sure this idea would work.

Also have you any idea why she changed her mind because I am so confused.

Thanks again for the advice it did help some what.

Thanks,
Dan

anybody see the newest member that just joined?

here's a pic

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

How am I a paedophile? There is 3 years difference between us. I don't want a sexual relationship. I would appreciate it if you said something constructive as opposed to destructive please.

you think humor is "destructive"?

lol

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no I appreciate it was just a joke and I don't mind that, it is just that no one (bar one person) has actually offered me some advice about how to deal with the situation and why she changed her mind. If you could offer me some advice I would be very grateful.

You want a relationship with a girl you can't fuck for 3 years and you think its going to work out? Lets be realistic bro

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