There is this foreign girl from work on a 6 month placement. So far, and as explained in my previous post (got-to-get-this-girl-before-she-leaves--vt124066.html), there has been lots of flirting (loads of kino, teasing and laughing) but I’ve never hooked up with her. Now there is only just over 2 weeks left before she goes back to her home country and I’m starting to get that sinking feeling of regret.

In the past couple of weeks over Christmas I tried to arrange a date with her but as her friend was visiting, she invited me along with them both which didn’t give me a chance to escalate, though it was a good evening. Also, I tried sorting something out just before New Years but as she was away for a few days it has had to wait. Now, finally, we have arranged to go for a drink (just the 2 of us) tomorrow after work.

I’m feeling that if I don’t escalate and kiss close her after the date tomorrow then I never will and it will, in all likelihood, be all over. Therefore, how much kino do I use, and how do I escalate with her while we’re out, and when/how do I go for the kiss close. Going in at the end for the kiss close seems the ideal time if I can’t figure out an opportunity during the date, but this will possibly build up too much pressure and make me nervous during the date, leading to disaster.

Perhaps I should intimate about us hooking up during the conversation and gauge her reaction….

Not only would I feel a huge amount of regret that this would be yet another occasion where I have not got anywhere with a girl after so much promise early on (even when I thought I had finally turned a corner in my PUA journey), but I do genuinely like her too.

Thanks for any tips.