Hey all first post here.

Here's the skinny - I have been on 6 dates with this HB9 but I haven't had the balls to kiss her because my inner game was shaky. I was able to come off as completely confident and I still build up a lot of sexual tension with her by leaning in and then pulling back making her think that I'm going to kiss her but then I don't. After finally reading The Game I have the inner game and actual confidence I need to go for the kiss.

We left it at that before winter break started (2weeks ago) and we have been texting a little bit but the conversations have been really bland and non playful. All the texts I've used are definitely playful and have a lot of hooks (not concerned with my text game) but she just hasn't been putting a lot of effort into her replies. She still asks me questions like "what are you doing for break?" and "how are you doing" ect. She also mirrors my writing style (not putting question marks at the end of questions). She seldom initiates text conversations too.

I feel like I'm losing attraction and we dont get back from winter break for 2 more weeks. How can I regain the attraction that we once had? She used to be all over me and dying to talk with me.

Thoughts

The window of opportunity had opened and now it has closed. Go find a litany of new targets and enjoy your new found wisdom. Hey, maybe once your time is monopolized by other women she will come back around... then you'll be ready.

Cheers!
Trajan
datedocspodcast.com

Trajan said it.

6 dates and no k-close, she might start assuming you are gay.

Move on.

It's possible she was waiting for you to escalate things for a while and simply got fed up. Women are funny creatures, they may love being around you one moment, and be willing to give you full access, but then at another moment shut the door entirely. Often times "doing nothing" is an option, but in the case with women, doing nothing can mean a lost opportunity you'll never get back.

Sounds like the door is partially closed at the moment and without the two of you being around each other, I don't really see how you can escalate things until you meet up again - no matter how 'tight' your text game may be. Going from near escalation back to text is kind of like moving backwards.