So there is this girl I want to bang who has just undergone the most dramatic change in personality I have ever seen. It's really confusing me. I'm just going to put some unedited texts here that are representative of how we talked before and after this change.

Before:
Me: Hello charming bitch
Her: Hello ugly perv friend
Me: I'm not your friend you reptile
Her: I didn't say you were my friend, but unless your a complete loser like you seem you should be someone's friend
Me: That was the dumbest thing I've ever heard
Me: Anyway so what's up and what not
Her: Why does it matter
Me: Forget itt
Her: K go away
Me: NO
Her: Why not
Me: I have a card that says do the opposite of whatever [her name] says
Her: I knew it

After:
Her: Do you hate me?
Me: For having insomnia?
Her: No, in general.
Me: No.
Her: Do you like me?
Me: Kinda.
Her: Kinda.
Her: Reassuring.
Me: There's only so much I can like you when you're mean to me.
Her: Not always mean, honestly I'm mean to you cause you let me be... Yet you keep talking to me... And it makes me happy
Me: Idk what that means really
Her: I'm able to vent my anger on you and you stay and talk
Me: I am pretty laid back it is true
Her: Very... I like having you around
Me: Lol because you are moody
Her: Yes...And no... I don't know...
Me: I like you.
Her: And I like you.


Anyway that was yesterday, now she just texted me saying she was randomly thinking of me and wants me to play with her hair before bed. What is going on??? Do you think she is actually attracted to me now or am I in the friend zone or what? I initially wrote her off when she started calling me ugly, 'cuz that strikes me as something a girl would never say unless she truly wasn't interested...but I kept talking to her because she was almost absurdly mean to me, so something seemed off about it. And I'm not that ugly...

Shes bored and your keeping her entertained... She told you straight up, " why the fuck do you tolerate my bitchy behavior and keep coming back for more"

Ask her out.. That'll tell you if she likes you or not

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Yeah one thing I've never had a problem with is turning it sexual in a 1 on 1 scenario, so I guess I'm just going to swing for the fences and find out if this was the harshest "shit test" I've ever seen or she is just bored and manipulating me.

Yes. She gave you a shit test, you passed. Don't lose your back bone in this after you've finally established it. You can still continue with the name calling, but i'd suggest toning it down, and make fun of her when she goes over the top.

Turning it sexual is relatively easy with a girl like that, it's more with what you don't say than with what you do. Eye contact with a bit of a sexual smirk for a moment or two at the right time when she's trying to take the piss out of you will work well.

You've got past her defences, turn it more sexual, and less argumentative haha.

LOL it would be hilarious and awesome if this was a shit test. I'm not really big into PUA theory and terminology but I've heard this one just reading online. I've always thought that if a girl truly doesn't like you, she'll ignore/avoid you, not banter with you. So I always keep going until that point. A lot of guys give up too easily I think.

Dude What are you doing ? and what are you thinking ? She is into you ! Dont you get it !!

Just keep your frame of teasing her - you guys are off to a fantastic start with all that reptile and ugly comments. Just don't wuss out.

As next steps, see her in person and build on the teasing rapport. You can close this one !!

Good Luck,
Marc

its retarded but I like it.

Ask her to hang out.

Bang her.

I dont even remember what the question was here lol. Just do this^

EDIT: k so I read the question and yea, she wants to be with you. Shes attracted to you and likes the flirting. Escalate.

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