Met the girl at a new years party. We were talking holding hands and what not then she just awkwardly says I have to get back to my friend. I let her go (I shoulda kept on talking). At the end of the nigt we talk again. I get her fb info (shoulda asked her # but I was talking to her friend as well and wasn't comfortable asking for her number SPAM idky) so we chat on fb for like an hour. I end the convo by telling her I'm walking in the gym shoot me he number so we can talk/text whatever. She says have a nice workout and doesn't give me the number. (confused) I reinitiate the convo again and we just talk for another hour building comfort and rapport. All of a sudden she stops answering. In my mind I'm done I wasn't chasing again after that. A few days pass and she hits me up and invites me to her birthday party. I don't know if I should accept or decline. [/img]

She invited you to chase, you didn't chase. She's come back to you with an invite to her party, I'd go. She'll take a little work, but once you've found that connection it should come together. I wouldn't give up yet.

Thanks for the info. FYI. I don't do well in clubs/ lounges,yet, I don't go out much. I've been getting into day game a lot as well. So I wouldn't know how to approach the situation. She's gonna be there with her friends. It's her "party". I'm the new guy. Any suggestions guys

If it was me in that situation, and i'm assuming you're going to a club or something for her birthday, i'd get a group of my friends out as well to that club or if it's okay with her and you're only with like 2-3 friends, go to predrinks or whatever it is before hand and win her friends over, and hit on her casually, then go in for the kill later in the night.

I hope this helps, i was a little unsure on what the exact situation was.

I'm on my phone So I definitely am just trying and sending. Sorry for no proof reading. I've never been to the place myself. She just told
Me its a restaurant lounge type of thing so
It's more like a happy hour with some ppl dining. She says she didn't invite many people either