She has not told me about her bf and does not know I know she has one.



Number closed few days later texted her exchanged a few texts told her we should get lunch including 2 days I was free



She replied with "I'm gonna be outa town till next week (which was true) .... but Definetly after that "


That seems to me like she was for sure down for it then on Xmas we exchanged a few texts I suggested a date when she was home and got no reply.2 days later I called and got no answer. It's been almost a week since then and I saw on her Facebook new pics with her bf



I was thinkin maybe her bf got her some things for Xmas and her bday which was right after Xmas and decided she didn't wanna cheat. What do you guys think?



I was thinking of sending a text sonething like


"Seeing you have a bf i think if we meet up for lunch it should be strictly platonic, no trying to seduce me! :p"




Good or bad? I would like to meet her once so in the future she will know me and maybe things could work out. She is for sure a 10

i think...wrong or right...a guy pursues/bangs my gf,

i'm dumping her ass

and either:

- buying him a beer

or

- beating him half to death

depending on my mood that day

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I understand there are issues with going after girls with bfs but my question is not about morals or whether or not I shocks try