Hi everyone.
I'm a 21 (almost) year old cosmpolitan guy from a not-so-big
town, living in an even smaller place (college) , in India.
As I mentioned Im pretty cosmopolitan but almost everyone else
is not. There is no nightlife or partying (no drinking or anything, i
mean gals dont do anything. as a side note, neither do i).
Im sure most gals here are virgins, shy, introverts, dont get hit very often, even
those who have 'boyfriends' havent done much, have delusional
"love at first sight" ideas.
Big cities in India are quite modern but every other place is filled
with hopeless romantic virgins.
Ive read David D' s DyD book and lurked here for around a
month. Ive learnt there are no step to step instructions in
seduction but you have to evolve to become what women desire.
I believe my inner game is quite good and outer one just needs some practice.
I couldve done something with the gals here but im extremely picky cuz the bollywood stuff showing heartbroken fragile ppl weeping is stuck in my head n i dont wanna do anything like this to anybody. Im sure I wouldve gotten laid by now if i were in a more liberal society but im kinda scared to screw someone over since most ppl are very sentimental here. so how do i gauge how much liberal a gal is?? could you also please help me out in figuring how to seduce and f close gals from my place n culture??
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how is giving someone sexual pleasure screwing them over?, a possible orgasm somehow leads to heart break?, It seems you have some sort of unrealistic view of women going on, this screams women are gentle little flowers that don't like sex and need to be loved a nurtured for months and months before you can kiss their soft heavenly lips, they are like gods with their vaginas, we must worship them, and win over their heavenly vaginas, in the hopes that just maybe by some miracle they will marry us and have sex one time for the purpose of making a kid...


re-think your view point, women want the same thing as you do, those girls who you think are pure and have done nothing probably sit at home masturbaiting 5 nights a week thinking about when they can find their next guy, that is if they are not getting action already, if your inner game was so good, you would just go for what you wanted, and stop caring about what other people think, do what is best for yourself not what is best for other people, there is a reason why india will soon be more populated then china, and it is not because of the repressed conservative women

the best way to find out if she is conservative, is get to know her, try to get her alone, make her horny as best as you can, and proceed to put your p in her v, if you can not complete this process get her contact info and at a later time proceed with process, be yourself, have fun with it, make it fun for your self without worrying about if she is having fun, because if your having fun and she isn't she isn't worth it, girls are just side kicks in your amazing adventures, it's your story book and she is along for the ride, if she isn't going along with your story, you can just turn the page and suddenly, HAZAAA a new girl was met, rinse and repeat

as a side note drinking and not drinking, has little to do with a person likeing sex, you don't need to get a girl drunk to make her horny

Wow eagernovice, I live in India as well. And I totally agree with you on what you said about the women in this place. Those women who enjoy sex are labelled as sluts by the society, even a women can't talk to a guy who she doesn't know well, right?

At situation like these, I think if you're looking to get laid, you should move to cities where you can find people who adapted the western culture like Mumbai etc. It's possible to get laid in India, but you can't do that with a women here if you're a stranger to them or the one-night stand idea won't work. So, first you need to make her your girlfriend, that's the easiest way you can have sex with her and close.

You can fuck these girls without making them your girlfriend too, the important thing is to get to know her. Find out more about her, have a good conversation going. If you have this mindset that the chicks don't love sex, change that. I've chick-friends who masturbate and they love sex, who wouldn't love sex? Their worst fears are being pregnant, and the guy cheating. So build trust, comfort and shits before you go for it.

Okay, this happened in my school, maybe this will give you more confidence and get to off the mindset you have about the women in India. I've a friend X, my senior at school and this girl Y. This girl Y was one of the most so called decent girl in school. This guy X was after her for an year and everyone thought she wasn't interested in her, and she even told me that she don't like him 'cause he's a philander. He was so confident and ya know playful and fun to be around and good looking as well. Even though she said that she hates him, she blushes when he comes around. Now blushing is an IOI. And all that went, he graduated and one day he told me this story when he came to visit his teacher that he had sex with her at her home. Her parents are very strict about things that they get pissed off even when she's found talking to a guy who calls her to know if she has his books. One thing to say bro, she has amazing tits and she knows how to give a good blowjob, Did I teach her how to give me a blowjob - No. Did she learn that at school - No. How does she know it? Does she watch porn? You bet. And she masturbates too.

Hey, when you do have sex with a women, give her an orgasm, you'll figure out why. Good luck! The push-pull technique works amazingly and helps makes her horny.

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Thanks for your advice guys. any more suggestions???
@pumpington: dude, you misunderstand me. maybe i am unable paint the exact big picture. i dont treat gals like they are godesses, i treat them like a bratty sister. I know everyone enjoys sex. About that screwing them over thing:
stupid bollywood movies + culture makes the gals associate sex with feeling way too much. What i fear is that if i f-close a gal im not too much into and she becomes emotionally attached, needy and clingy, when i leave her she might do something stupid (become suicidal; that happens a lot here.)

listen i would talk about this with Don Draper(i think he is indian) and chief they have experience in other cultures...Good luck!

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Thanks skills360. Please do inform me what comes out of disscussion.

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1.stop taking it serious.
2.who cares what culture you live in? YOU WANT WHAT YOU WANT AND SHOULD GO FOR YOUR DESIRES.
3.just fucking ask the gal out. Even if you don't know anything about women just ask her out.

Men post similar questions and think they are unusual. "Please help me I want to get a gal. But society and my morality won't let me."
What the fuck are you talking about? You are just playing with her and experiencing emotions.