I had lunch with this girl yesterday and it went well. Last night at 1 am she texted me and I was canned. At lunch i told her my buddy may have a party this weekend and I would let her know, which I didn't do.

Her: hey hey
Me: whatsup whatsup
Her: not alot. What about you?
Me:I'm just stirring up all kinds of trouble what about you?
Her: oh yea? What kinda trouble
Me:making all my friends puke haha
Her: ew ha
Me: haha jk sorta. What are you doing?

I cringed when I read this today.

That wasn't anywhere near as bad as I was expecting. Sure, those were some stupid texts, but if you think those did absolutely anything to ruin things for you, you're being way too hard on yourself.

I agree be less hard on yourself and instead focus on being HARD on her.

So just pretend it never happened or what?

Yeah. It wasn't really a big deal. She was just bitchy and didn't respond after she texted you first. Don't mention it.

Omg, I have done ten times worst. And I still didn't blow it. Only thing is, I wasn't a drunk text, I knew exactly what I was doing. But I did have alcohol in my system.


I know this is gonna sound stupid. But playing it safe with women will lead to little success. Being really edgy, has great potential to loose women, but at the same time, it can built crazy attraction and comfort at the same time. She will open up to you a lot more. All the girls I fucked so far, I been real edgy with them. Never got one by playing it safe, besides my first girlfriend in high school.

As Style puts it, "Best way to get someone, is not being afraid to loose them."