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PostPosted: Wed Dec 28, 2011 3:36 pm 
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As I´ve started the game, I´ve met alot of women. Within the last 48 hours, I´ve gotten BJ from two girls and messed around with 3 other women. I´m very active, basicly. The thing I´m asking you guys about however, is reputation. Whenever I´m with woman friends, they usually say they heard about some girl I´ve been with...

How will this affect my game, that each girl I meet, I´ve atleast made out with 2 of her friends. I might even be dating one of her friends.

How will reputation of being a player affect my game?

Right now I´m talking to 15 girls.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 28, 2011 4:50 pm 
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Lol maintaining 15 girls, that's a full-time job :D How do you do that?

And being a player is ok because it's total social proof. Yet I also do firmly believe that overdoing it will lead to girls backing off because they don't want their heart broken. So you'll have to find a middle road between your extremes and none.


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15 girls is 3 full time jobs.. I can barley maintain 3 and still manage to have a life.. Get real dude.. You just said you started game 48 hours ago and already talk to 15 girls?

And with a playa reputation you can lay a lot of hot chicks, that have heard good things about youu sex skills but it'll be tough to actually get the girls you want.. Stay low key.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 28, 2011 5:06 pm 
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Lol maintaining 15 girls, that's a full-time job :D How do you do that?

And being a player is ok because it's total social proof. Yet I also do firmly believe that overdoing it will lead to girls backing off because they don't want their heart broken. So you'll have to find a middle road between your extremes and none.
Well I said I was speaking to 15 girls. So what I´ve done is that I´ve flirted each one of them up to the level that I can ask them out on a date or invite them to a party. I´m only dating a few of them - its time consuming but I like the contrast to my previous life. Only three of them is serious enough for them to care about their hearts being broken. The fuckbudies doesn´t care about that shit.


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15 girls is 3 full time jobs.. I can barley maintain 3 and still manage to have a life.. Get real dude.. You just said you started game 48 hours ago and already talk to 15 girls?

And with a playa reputation you can lay a lot of hot chicks, that have heard good things about youu sex skills but it'll be tough to actually get the girls you want.. Stay low key.
Reread my post, the last 48 hours was an example proving I´m some sort of man whore or whatever


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Having that playa reputation, will only increase your value in the stock market.

They will try to be special to you, meaning they will try to tame you. Because all the other girls couldnt.

So you are challenge, girls love that.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 28, 2011 6:34 pm 
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15 girls? Wow! I have trouble managing one.


Been trying to hit this girls up I number close, never even had time just because of my previous numbers I still hit up. I could barely remember them now, lol.


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I don't know what is it that you want right now, but in my experience being a player can do you more harm than good with high quality girls.

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I don't know what is it that you want right now, but in my experience being a player can do you more harm than good with high quality girls.

For me it has gone both ways. I put off play vibe very unintentionally.

Many girls joke about it but still try to 'tame' you or they just hear about the rumors and find you exciting. Probably a mentality that all of these women are attracted to him, he must have something great to offer.

A few though were totally put off by it for example this girl I was chatting up had only one boyfriend and only had sex with him and he broke her heart, cheated on her was a total 'player' etc and so she was very weary of me and nervous I would do the same because I seemed a lot like him.


The best way to deal with player vibe is make up some story, doesn't have to be true, about a LTR you had or a former fiance depending upon your age.

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The best way to deal with player vibe is make up some story, doesn't have to be true, about a LTR you had or a former fiance depending upon your age.
I´m not really into pua terms, could you give an example of what an 18 yearold man might use for story?


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Simply mention a girl you were together with for a long time...
Tell a story about something fun that happened when she was with you.
Short example: Yeah so this one time at band camp I was walking with my girlfriend when I saw this ginger filling her vajayjay up with a fucking flute. It was a huge flute by the way and a very small vajayjay. Mad skills that girl had, so yea basically I had to fuck her. Which I did after I walked my girl back to her room. Great night.


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Simply mention a girl you were together with for a long time...
Tell a story about something fun that happened when she was with you.
Short example: Yeah so this one time at band camp I was walking with my girlfriend when I saw this ginger filling her vajayjay up with a fucking flute. It was a huge flute by the way and a very small vajayjay. Mad skills that girl had, so yea basically I had to fuck her. Which I did after I walked my girl back to her room. Great night.
If I´m going to lie, I´d rather say something hotter like "Well, I´ve been with women, but now I´m looking for something... special". Short and concise is a lot sexier than some repulsive story about cheating with a weird ginger on a festival


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I hope you know that was ironical ;)
No the point is 'accidently' drop in a old girlfriend in one of your stories. She knows you as this hardcore player (since you've picked her up quite easily) and thus you'll have to show her your other side.
And yeah your line will probably work aswell. But that'll better come after you told her a story involving a girlfriend because odds will be great you'll get a shittest response like "do you say that to all of your girls?" Which is exactly the frame you're trying to escape from.


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Yeah but are these chicks even hot?


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