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So I met this girl at a Christmas party about 3 weeks ago. Ended up driving her home and having sex with her, then again the next morning.
A few days passed and I texted her again inviting her out. The entire convo lasted throughout the day and ended up with her not going out with me but rather me driving down and meeting up with her and her friends at the bars. So I met her, had a good time, had sex like 3 times that night and 3 times in the morning.
Now by this point I am pretty into this girl, personality-wise. Shes sexy but I am getting a slut vibe from her, mostly because she cant seem to get enough dick lol.
So anyways I've hit her up twice since then, both times were 3 days apart and I am getting the feeling that shes lost interest. The last time I hit her up she said that she "just had the worst day ever" and I responded with something like "well I'll hit you up in a bit and you can tell me about it." I then called her 30 mins later but she never answered and I havent heard back from her since.
So should I try contacting her again? Or just I just do my best to let it go and hope she contacts me? Usually Id just move on but since we've had sex a few times now IDK what the best thing is to do.....
Any advice appreciated
Buyers remorse. In Mystery's world, you moved from attraction to seduction without building comfort. Now when she hears from you it reminds her of how slutty she acted (a big deal for a woman). It's not that she doesn't want to hang with you, it's just that you're associated with that dirty feeling.
Or, she just wanted sex and is done with you (there are girls like this, not just guys).
Yes, contact her again but don't hit her up with the intent of becoming her therapist. She had a bad day? You respond with "I'm going to make you forget all about your bad day, I'm coming by, be ready"