Has pain ever been as intense to you that you thought about ending it?

I've suffered a bad break-up, and the sheer fact of seeing my beautiful ex makes me want to kill myself sometimes.

I think about how she was mine. How we had so much great moments. And how all of this is gone, and will never happen again.

It makes me sad.

How about the people that look at you, and think of all the great moments they had with you, and how you are theirs, if you commit suicide, all of that will be gone, and will never happen again. If you do it you are becoming the thing you hate the most. Break the cycle, find some real help (PUA forum isn't the best place to go with this problem)

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

I was depressed at one point, and my friend told me the best advice I think I have ever heard in my life. "If you ever get depressed, do charity work". I done it and it worked for me. It makes you realise what is important. Also, try writing a list of what you are grateful for, no matter how small, the food you eat, the clothes that keep you warm, a bed.

never give up. these bad moments in life, are what make the good moments great. it's just its hard to see at the moment.

As much as what you are saying here frustrates me as there's so much more to who you are than this girl, breakups are hard... nothing you can do about that and nothing will make the pain go away quickly. My advice, keep busy, work on improving yourself and have fun in life! Look at the positives, you are single now so have a lot of time on your hands to improve yourself, if the OLD you got a girl that great, the new you will get one even better!

I also found that Nick Vujicic helped put things into perspective a bit... heres one of his videos...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KxjiEi2E ... re=related

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'Be who you are and say what you feel; because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind'

If you are serious, then please, please I urge you to seek professional help immediately.

I have struggled with depression, and while I can never understand your pain, I can recall what mine was like.

Life is beautiful and worth living. Please, please seek help, tell your family, tell your friends, people who can help not just people on the internet.

I've never really battled with "depression". To be completely honest I think its a scam. Doctors and big pharma make billions off of "depression" so I think that its been hyped up in our society.

I mean I've had periods in my life where I was down. And if anyone should of been depressed in highschool it was me, but I just kept my mind off of it.

Get a hobby man, go on nature hikes and just breathe in life. You'll find the love of your life when you start doing things you love.

Yo mate.

About three years ago, i was in this relation that drained completely on an emotional level. The breakup was devastating. However i never felt like killing myself, i was deeply saddend and furious at the world.

I realized though on the other hand, what great power i had in my hands. This one door was closed, but thousands of other doors had been unlocked. Looking back to see what was lost, memories to treasure. Looking forward i saw the power to create something like that again with my own hands. There is possibility. The world is at our feet, we just need to bend and grab it. I wondered what my greatest desire was and realized that it was out there.

Perhaps mate, its time for you to make a 180 turn and stop looking at that one door that has been closed. Look at the world before you, and start moving again .

cheers

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

well i have trouble with suicidal thoughts ... and it's not about break ups. .depression is a big fucking scam... they do not know what depression is and they do not know why it works that way..psychologist keep laughing at me when i tell them im HSP.. they don't believe that shit even tho it's confirmed by research/science... i go to psychologists and i get dissapointed because i seem to know as much or even more than the psychologist im visiting.

I also took anti depressants for 2 weeks... really.. i was like a zombie even at the lowest dosages, i stopped taking it becuase i couldn't do anything. when i stopped taking that shit i was more suicidal than before - because my brain chemistry is off balance by SSRI. Depression is a state of conciousness .. you like it or you don't like it... i know herbal medicine anyway so i just self medicated with natural anti-psychotics like nutmeg, nicotine, valerian, tumeric, different salvia... and it worked better than those shitty meds they prescribe.


dude.. you are fucking kidding yourself... she was never yours.. the break up wasn't bad - that's just your perspective... if you would have met another woman you would have thought exactly the same shit. you are tricking yourself to be negative.. just fucking accept reality.. woman fuck guys all the time... she also fucking with other men.. not all people can be trusted and not all people do love someone.. in most cases it's just a ego thing.. learn to not give a fuck and move on.

im depressed for most of my life.. it's biological .. and you are crying about some break up ? a part of me wants to say go fuck yourself... in a polite fashion of course.

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I've been there. A two year relationship ended. She got a boyfriend easily, I was left alone. People didn't want to see me, people didn't like me. I crawled back to her again and again.

Most of us have a story like this. It drove us to self-improvement. Your life circumstances are decided by who you are. Not you at this moment, but by your skills, your conditioning, etc. Those are certainly changeable, and so are your circumstances.

There is a secret in life though. I'll share it with you, and I hope it helps.

Whatever life gives you, is what you need to be who you should be. Every moment of your life offers you something, you can take advantage of it or not. There is a lesson to be learned in this pain, in every pain. If you don't learn it, that same pain will come again and again. Once you do, though, that pain is changed to love, and your life mirrors it.

Good luck, friend. We're all on a journey, yours is hard right now.