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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2011 9:51 pm 
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Is it ok to ask a girl youve just met for like an hour in the night time or online questions like

So what are your passions in life
what do you do for fun
what are you after in a guy

They sound to deep for me to say to a girl. an iv always been unsure if to ask them or not in daygame it seems more natural to say stuff like this to a girl.

At nightime or online it sounds a bit puffy lol hopefully im wrong i think i am wrong i actually wouldnt mind asking questions like these because then i can talk about her passions my passions etc etc

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No , If you have just met the girl keep it light and simple ..just casual small talk . no monumental questions. Just flirt a bit , get to know them on an unemotional level. If you ask questions like " what are your passions in life , etc" she'll think she was the first girl you met all year


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2011 10:07 pm 
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Good questions, but would scare a lot of girls away. (like inthazone said)
It's better to phrase it as your idea - "I wish I could just go for a long walk on the beach" and she'll be like "omg me 2!!!" for example
Sterotypical as shit but the ladies like it (it's giving the girl the romance she sees in the movies, without DLVing yourself)

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2011 10:19 pm 
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Better way of doing this. Move the conversation on to your passions in a smooth and natural way and then have a back and forth conversation about both of your passions while showing particular attention and understanding to hers. When she talks about her passions ask questions like, what made you get into that? What was that like for you? where do you think your passion comes from? etc. That way the question wont come out of the blue and wont clang with the conversation.

Heres an example if a girl says she likes ballet it going to be difficult to relate to her and share her passion as im sure you dont want to pretend that you like ballet. Instead relate to her on the way it makes her feel, the idea of creative expression and instances where you enjoy to express yourself creatively whether it be playing an instrument, acting, art, writing, photography or any number of different things.


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