Alright, I need hep with this, because I'm really confused.
I have this girl, we went for a drink once during the fall semester - I treated her as a friend. During exams, she kept texting me and telling me I should join her after exams, but not for studying.
At school she constantly texts me with:
she: "are you free?"
me: "yeah, why?"
she: "lol... I wanted to see you
"
Then after exams:
me: "have you started partying for end of the semester?"
she: "oh yeah, friday, saturday... i'm waiting you to take me somewhere
"
Then, we found the only open place on Christmas Eve was Boston Pizza, so we met up there after family dinners we each had.
At that point, I'm thinking I should go caveman on her, or at least suck her earlobe to show her how good it feels, so I started of with pointing funny things out or asking her what she has been up to - Not even a smile from her. Example:
She had texted me earlier: "I have to clean my room, take a shower and shit..."
And I pointed out: "I don't know why you're telling me you have to take a crap, but my suggestion is to shower after that." I would expect any girl I say that to laugh or hit me. She was just like, " well, you know.."
Then any joke I try, no giggle, no nothing - that crippled me. I've never had to deal with something like that - I always make girls laughing and smiling at me, and then from there anything is easy.
Then she starts showing me these guys, that all look like Jersey Shore, that she's apparently friends with (trying to DHV me?), and how she usually goes to their places with a few other girls to chill. She does have me on Facebook, so she knows there are tens of other girls I can go out with, but none of them live anywhere close to me and her. I didn't understand that.
-In my head, I was thinking - why is she telling that she goes there, having orgies. I do know that she grew up without a father, so male attention is obvious. But why would she tell me that?
Anyways, the "meeting" at Boston Pizza was a disaster after that, because my brain blocked, we even had these pauses where we had nothing to talk about.
It got about time to leave (1.30pm), so we're standing on the bus stop - she is wearing pretty much nothing on her legs, so she's cold. I ask her "come, I'll give you a hug", and she replied "oh, no thanks, but you're so sweet" accompanied by her lovely smile.
On the bus, she about to get off, I ask her to accompany her to her house, because there's this dark alley she has to go through - "no, thanks a lot for asking. Can I just call you and talk while I walk home, just in case?" She gives me a full hug, gets up tells me she feels much better after the couple of drinks and leaves - I couldn't even ask her - "hey, where's my kiss".
no text exchanged since then (2days).
she is 9/10, with proper make up and hair, goes up to 9.9 - short, so not that much bitchy confidence. Why did she do all the stuff above (the jersey shore guys, the laughing, the mood swing, the ioi change...) AND How do you guys deal with chicks that don't laugh? (because apparently it's my Achilles heel)
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