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PostPosted: Sun Dec 25, 2011 1:43 am 
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hi guys
I can approach no problem. but after the initial approach, I dont know how to proceed to reveal that I am interested in her. I always feel like it's too soon and it would be embarrassing to reveal that I am interested in her sexually. dont women hate it when you look at them as sexual objects?
I will give you an encounter that i had today so you know what i mean
today i was at the store and saw this girl. I said "did you know santa dosnt exist?"
she smiled and said "ya"
Is now the right time to ask for her number?
I said "I just found out today"
she said "haha...that's funny"
Is now the right time to ask for her number?
I said "hey, do you know where I can find some Happy Holidays cards?"
she said "all the cards are right here, but i dont know if they carry those. Good luck."
Is now the right time to ask for her number?

my problem is
1. I dont know the right time. I always feel like its too soon.
2. How do I ask? like "I think you are so pretty, I want to have sex with you" or ??

dammit, i loved her, she was hot and she was sharp. most people dont get that its just a joke, but she did.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 25, 2011 2:08 am 
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hi guys
I can approach no problem. but after the initial approach, I dont know how to proceed to reveal that I am interested in her. I always feel like it's too soon and it would be embarrassing to reveal that I am interested in her sexually. dont women hate it when you look at them as sexual objects?
I will give you an encounter that i had today so you know what i mean
today i was at the store and saw this girl at the store. I said "did you know santa dosnt exist?"
she smiled and said "ya"
Is now the right time to ask for her number?
I said "I just found out today"
she said "haha...that's funny"
Is now the right time to ask for her number?
I said "hey, do you know where I can find some Happy Holidays cards?"
she said "all the cards are right here, but i dont know if they carry those. Good luck."
Is now the right time to ask for her number?

my problem is
1. I dont know the right time. I always feel like its too soon.
2. How do I ask? like "I think you are so pretty, I want to have sex with you" or ??

dammit, i loved her, she was hot and she was sharp. most people dont get that its just a joke, but she did.
None of those instances were the right time to ask her for her number. You didn't even get her name. I suggest always at least getting her name before you as for the digits. You are still just a random guy, you must commit to a personal act, asking her name and introducing yourself can do wonders.

It's going to come down to the reaction and body language she gives off as you are doing the intro, but if you are not at that level to interpret such things, I suggest you show some honest emotion.

In your case, i would of said something like " I know this may seem forward, but i feel a really good vibe from you. I don't normally do this but " do you have a cell phone?" she replies "yes". OK i am going to give you my number, put it in your phone. (don't ask, demand politely) Or take her phone and put your number in yourself, if she gives up the phone, it is a sign of interest, while you have the phone put your number in then dial it from hers. Tell her you just did that, and now you have hers, and if she doesn't message you within a couple days that you will be messaging her. Right after that, leave. You've secured the digits, stay mysterious.

All women are aware that we look at them as sexual objects, who are you kidding? They know instantly if we are interested in that way. It is human nature. What they do not know is if you are some sort of creep or not. It's up to you to show them you are not.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 26, 2011 1:55 am 
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Women love to feel desired and become aroused when you express sexual intent CORRECTLY. Never feel ashamed of your sexual desire. You are a man, she is a woman. It's natural and normal to feel attraction and there is no need to hide it. In fact, the more comfortable you become with showing sexual intent, the more women you will attract and seduce.

The best way to indicate your intent is eye contact and to tell her within the first minute that you find her attractive. At the least tell her she's cute, but try and give her a specific compliment about what actually makes her attractive to you.

The right time to ask for a number is after about 3-5 minutes of conversation, after you have 5 interesting things about her, and hopefully already found at least one common interest and suggested a date.

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