Hey, I used to think this girl from work likes me because whenever we are out with a group from work she always dances with me and says she 'loves' me and iv even been referenced on her twitter when she said 'i love henry' (my name). Now by all means im not a fool i know she was up to her eyeballs in alcho when she said that but we get along and as a joke last time i was out i asked for her hand in marriage and she accepted and now we are 'officially' engaged on fb.
However, she doesnt really initiate contact with me so its just difficult to tell and now im thinking she may not be interested after all or maybe only interested after alot of drinks lol.

but i think im in the dreaded friendzone and i want out of the friendzone and into the attraction zone asap =/

any tips experts in here?

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easy going guy trying to get into the PUA world

How long do you know this girl?

Girls know instantly within the first meeting with you that you are in the friendzone or not. So the question might be, or it's too late or not?

Now... A girl will not put you in the friend zone if she thinks you are higher value then her.

You must treath her like your equal and tease her on things she does wrong. For example, if she asked you to dance, you always told her instantly yes. The frame that you bring her, is "Yay, i get a chance to dance with you" (-> you see her higher value, she senses that)

How to establish this higher value... in the dancing example, she asks you to dance, you say yes. You tell her in a fun smiling way that she can't dance and you will never dance with her again.

She will dance with you again.

small example... hope it helped a bit

known her for 4 months. and yh tht did help... i forgot all this higher value stuff so thanx

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easy going guy trying to get into the PUA world

How often do you behave sexually with her?

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well when we dance we do some grinding... im prob just going to ask her out and just see what she says

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easy going guy trying to get into the PUA world

That's not being sexual, that's you enjoying the moment of her ass against ur dick.

She acts, you undergo.

It's time for you to act. Act and be sexual, hold eye contact for longer periods, pause your voice when talking bout something sexual.

imagine you fucking the shit out of her while you are talking wiht her. She will notice you are different. (She'll see it in your eyes)

Act, don't passive wait.