Hey guys,

When you have met this girl, and you are in the middle of your seduction, i have encountered this pitfall, which i ll try to make clear in a story.

Not so long ago, i met this girl, also at work. I had seen her before but ignored her, because i noticed that she was trying to get into my view. She looked at me, trying to catch my eye, searching for eyecontact. So i kinda knew she was into me. So we talked. I was very satisfied, as i kinda felt that i was succesful. we talked about sex, and i could see it all before me, how we made sweet sweet love. I really wanted that sweet sweet love, i couldnt think of anything else anymore. Somehow in the interaction, this was planted in my mind! it drove me crazy. I started to do stupid things, things that were obviously trying, afc things. Bye bye sweet love.

This is what i mean by: when you want to seduce, be prepared to be seduced yourself. Seduction cant work without you being emotionally involved, no matter what others say. But you need to control your emotions. You need to be prepared, because they will come, and they will strike hard. You need to be able to switch those off, especially when you are alone. For me, this is always a struggle. This is always the hardest part. But it is key!

Now lets take it one step further, and i hope you can make the mental jump with me: this is what it means to be independ on the outcome. Controlling your emotions. This means that it will hurt when you lose the game, but your in control, so to the victem it looks like you dont care that much. You will notice, while controlling your urges, after a while you dont really care that much anymore.

hope it helped,

cheers!

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