Ok here is my story I'll make it brief as possible.

Basically I pick up a gorgeous 19yr hb8, we begin relationship. She was constanly trying to be the perfect girlfriend, I mean I had her 100% whipped, room cleaned whatever I wanted but I never even asked. I loved her, we had an amazing, fun relationship for almost 2 years... then a friend of mine commited suicide and my car broke down and I had to take a few thousand dollars loan to pay for a new car, so all my extra fun money would be gone for a month or two. I got depressed and actually pushed her away from me. I realize now that hapiness is a state of mine and it was very beta for me to act like a bitch... even in the circumstances, but anyways, she softly broke up with me after a month of me being lost in delirium... I fucked it up even worse by acting needy and insecure and jealous in ensuing month trying to "fix it".... I had been so confortable in this relationship for so long I just completely forgot all my game because I thought she would literally never leave. She'd even said it ffs!

I am a musician and a popular good looking male, I used to date 3 to 4 women at a time, (when I met her she was no. 3)...

I have options, but I would like to have the power back with me and her... even though I AM moving on for now.

She started dating some dude she works with, a little bit too fast but I chok it up to her being a young and high value girl... Now I cut off contact for 3 weeks.. mid novemeber to december 15th.. the night my popular, awesome band was going to rock her hometown... (we both live in a city away from our hometowns)... anyways I contacted her (email) and said, "Love is for fags, really I'm doing awesome now blah blah fun blah" ,

She replies, I knew the (my name) I knew would start to come though again,
she then went on about how I'm awesome and fun loving amazing blah blah (all true btw I'm the shit when I'm not getting double whammied with heavy shit)... tell my dad merry christmas (wtf?), and that "I'm still in her heart"...
I know she dating (fucking) this dummy kid who works in the back of her restaurant, and that is very gross to me... however this girl is a bit of a genuine keeper and if I didn't get all depressed and act like a little bitch we would still be together.

Anyways, My band plays the show, kills it, all her hometown friends she grew up with love me, sick after party, etc.. good night and I am top fucking male...
She emails me and knows all the details about the party, more than I do even

So she asks me out to sushi in an email... I am still

I haven't responded, I want to decline in a classy, high value way...not just ignore her (what I'm doing) any suggestions would be much appreciated.

summary
I am moving on
but I want me and her to be my game, like it was 99% of our relationship.

Yo king.

fun story .
What i understand from your request is that you dont want to be with her again, but you also dont want to cut the line, probably because you would feel good if you know that she would still be there?

Are you actually sure you want to move on? Like in really 100% sure? Cause i dont fully believe you.

If you want her back, tell her how you feel. From what i can make out of your story, i think you still have a shot (if played right). If you dont, you can gracefully type the following words:

Hey,

i would love to go, but i dont think it would be a good idea for any of us. So i gracefully pass (put smiley here). Maybe another time.

love,

King shao

That is what i would write.

cheers

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

So basically you don't want this girl but like a 16yr old school girl you get jealous if she is with someone else and so you dont want her with anyone else either. Your Ego wants massaging from her telling you that she wants to be with you and you feel more of a man by turning her down.

From the way you describe the girl, she sounds like a flexible, committed girl - who you just lost because of your stupidity.

You got some maturing to do.