Ok I'm going to add a few disclaimers to this before i even start. I'm not a sad fucker who wants a girlfriend so i can synch up my periods with a soul mate. Nor have i got one-itis, I don't have a particular girl in mind. I'm open to all comers.

Anyway, I'm 18 (a very mature one) and I've been doing PUartistry for i dunno, a year or two. I'm pretty good at it, and am successful more often than not. But unfortunately right now it would be more appropriate for me to settle down for a month or two with a girl. Why? I'll tell you.

Firstly, pretty much everyone my age in town is busy with study at the moment. So going out every weekend is just not possible. This is incredibly frustrating. For a while i tried going out every weekend, only to find the bar empty. May as well lay low for a while, But I'll need a steady source of sexual gratification too and my internet connection is not strong!

My friends, the group that i hang around with ALL HAVE GIRLFRIENDS. It's so annoying. I'm not jealous, I even pity a few of them. It's just that i am now a single singleton. What I mean by that is that i have no single male friends. SO we can't go out cruising on the weekend, because they're too busy cuddling on the goddamn couch. PUA is dying in my hometown gentlemen. I've got to hang up the balls for a while until things pick up.

So what's my question? how do i adapt the method for making girlfriends rather than for a quick shift? I come from a small enough city so everyone knows each other. If you maul a girl on a night out then the pure shame on both sides prevents anything further from happening. And drunkenly chatting up a girl by acting alpha male means you have to keep it up all the time. ugh exhausting.

So any advice? If you're just going to leave a generic bullshit reply along the lines of "Yo manz i need no bitches, I'm balls deep in HB10s 24 7z!" then jog on. I want some practical advice from people who know what they're talking about. Thank you in advance! Respect!

hey GallowGlass,

First of all, your determination should not be based on your friends success. This will not help you get a girlfriend because your doing it for the wrong reason. It sounds to me like you are good though. You should firstly always go out happy. Walk in the room like everything is going your way. While it will help to go in with a friend or girl, you can do this alone. Stand tall GallowGlass. Stand tall.

Look for a target and walk over without thinking. If there really isnt a women, go practice on guys until a girl shows up! See if you can make a friend to hang out with (or wing with). When you do see a girl in a group or even alone, walk over and game her, get her number, and get out. Sounds to me like you know how to game a girl. Call her and set up a date.

Go into it with the mentality that YOU are qualifying her. If shes all good and you think this can work, move in and kiss her. Dont be scared because most likely she is digging you. Wait a while for sex and be serious. Be a good boyfriend. Snuggle her and talk to her.

Then you wont be alone.


- Bowser

Thanks bowser, good advice. I like the stand tall! I'll let you know how it works out.