So I'm a senior and my friends sister is a 10th grader. In the summer she showed intrest. She is very touchy she flirts with alot of guys. She likes one guy but she talks to alot of guys at a time. She's immature when it comes to that. She gets dummped alot because she has never went past making out with a guy. Even her boy friend of a year that's why he dumped her. She was like that with me in the summer I felt like she did like me a bit but I got friend zoned. This Saturday over txt I told her I liked her more than a friend. She responded 6 hours latter " its okay ots not gonna be akward" She told both her brothers. One of them hates me and I'm the other ones best friend for like 10 months. She sits next to me in lunch so you know how akward this is now. Yesterday she was nice and gave me food. But would brush me off because her brother sits at the table behind us and so do my friends. They were cracking jokes because her brother that hates me told all of my friends. So she was uncomfortable. I think she knew I liked her but was being nice she talks to alot of guys. She likes this one kid for 2years who's buying her a jacket for Christmas but never asked her out. She made out with this one guy last month and liked him. She's like that if she gets with you she"ll like you. So since its akward now what should I do she's uncomfortable now. She didn't tell me but her friend told me that she only likes me as a friend. She hasn't texted me at all she usually texts me first once every week or 2. I think she knew I liked her but didn't say anything cause I didn't and she sees me as a wuss. I'm thinking if I freeze her out. I'm muscular but bulkly get abs. I'm learning how to dj in 2 months. Also and get other girls. Have no contact with her for 6 months to a year. Should I try? Cause I'm an afc now. Does this sound like a plan?

Your in high school and not having any fun whatsoever cause you keep wanting to change yourself for your friends sister. You are a senior and probably/hopefully going off to college next year. Dude once you get to school you wont even remember this chicks name so stop wasting time now and enjoy the last half of the high school with zero thought of her. Never change yourself to get a girl just be yourself. On a serious note if 1 of her brothers hate you did it ever occur to you that its cause you like his sister? You're best friends with her other brother don't lose that friendship because you want to get into her pants. And trust me as a senior in high school that's all it is just getting into someones pants. Work on you for you develop your game and get ready for college cause that's where you will discover the real you. I know it sucks but forget this one...once you leave school do you really want to wait 2 years for her to finish high school? Of course not cause by then you will be well on your way to living life as you want it. Take the rest of the year and enjoy it, work on yourself, and get prepared to be an adult.

so basically my advice in this situation would be:
she likes other guys a lot, you said you liked her, but she hasn't shown IOI's to you when i read this. Forget her as s5lover says, and just move in. Do not care about it, and find some1 else. This is a typical example of one-itis. If you go for other girls, she might find out that you were just being playful, and tried to get a nice reaction.

I kinda had this problem too. I said i liked a girl, but every time she walked past me and i said hi, she felt awkward and didn't stop to talk with me.
2 weeks later i made out with a different girl, and the girl I liked noticed that. SINCE THAT MOMENT she doesnt'feel akward anymore to talk to me. I even neg her and she doesn't care, because we are just friends now and hang out sometimes.

Hope that advice will help you out:)

Thanks mAn. Thinking back to it in the summer she had to have liked me a little. She used to ask me to take her to haunted places. She grabbed my hand at one point and asked what i would do to her if She was a hooters girl then asked for my number. She screamed outside of her bedroom window for me to hang out with her late at night. She pulled me aside in the hallway to flirt with me before. She would wait outside with her brother when I Would come pick him up. Then after the 3rd of school she acted different to me. She wouldn't hug me. Im so dumb for not reacting She gave me All the signs. I never ask to hang out before alone now she flakes if I ask her cause she picked this other guy. I probley did display something she didn't like I used to smoke and she got sad. Now though I guess the best thing to do is to basically freeze her out let this thing blow over with the guy. Focus on getting better with game, get ripped, get alot of girls. Then try again once her perception of me has changed and this guy blows her over. Cause I"ll know her for a long time I'm very good friends with her brother. Everyone knows I got denied but I"ll be in college next year obviously getting more girls. I'm saying though once this blows over I should try again? With a lot more experience. I heard that if u let a girl forget about you and change and comeback aswome her perception of you can change? Thanks I'm not going to take it's not worth it as an answer. ( I'm doing this cause I like her and prove to myself). I'm also taking up djing which will massively increase my social value. So how's this for a shot? No one hate please