Right so...I'm 20, virgin, never even kissed or had a gf.

I've been wondering what sort of mentality most of you have going into sets. For me, I can't help but wonder what it would be like to have the girl I'm talking to be a gf. I know that's bad but how do I fix it? And what do I think about if I am to fix that?

Thats not necessarily a bad thing. You are going in with a Goal/outcome in mind. So now, go in and speak with her like a Normal person. Be playful, tease, funny and interesting - warm her up, make her comfortable in your presence and let her speak about herself, react and interact with you. That way you'd be able to weed out the ones that YOU wouldnt want to date. You dont want every girl as your GF believe me !

I go to have fun and put my best foot forward, try new materials and styles.

When you are starting off in the world of Pick up - try putting yourself in a Happy/Cheerful State of Mind, good enery and be aware of your surroundings i.e. if you are at a loud club and she is having fun dancing and talking to everyone match your energy with that of hers and escalate the level of energy.

Good luck.

well when I see girls in hot/short dresses and high heels all looking HOT i just want to eat their pussy and fuck them so hard up the arse/pussy that they'll scream in pleasure all night.

something along those lines....

You think too much.

And this is probably the reason why you are still a virgin and never kissed a girl.

Hell, what do I think when I'm eating breakfast? I don't know.... Thinking about the breakfast?

What do I think about when I play hockey? I don't know... Maybe thinking about playing hockey?

Same goes with flirting with girls... Why don't you just focus on the interaction? Stop trying to analyze every single aspects of everything and try to enjoy yourself a bit more. Perhaps you should have a look at some Pick up Material just to get you going but for fuck sake, please stop thinking so much...

My 2 cent,

Good luck

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Im only thinking about having a good time. That is why all my pumping you up for sarging music isnt all macho maccho manly bull but genuine feelgood music.

Be happy!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn