Alright, so I'm a college student who is pretty big in the university due to involvement with clubs, etc. As I leave a club, a HB9 recognizes me and makes conversation. Using a few negs and teasing her, I end up bringing her back to my place. After dealing with some LMR, I F-close.

For days and even weeks after, she texts me asking to hang-out and sends me pictures of her outfits before she goes out. I'm thinking I'm doing well, however whenever we have plans she backs out. This happens several times before I basically say screw it. At this point, I think I've made myself too available and thus no longer a prize.

However, I've been thinking about trying again with her. We've had a couple short convos on Facebook, but I'm not feeling a vibe off of her. (It's been a couple months since we last texted)

Any suggestions to liven it back up?

f-close is a pretty high level of compliance and investment on her end, if she flakes all the time after that, that is a strange situation, your best bet is to just move on from her, or catch her in person and repeat the original process (harder for her to flake in person just don't be a stalker, that is not what I am recomending)

Thanks pumpington,

That's basically the plan I had rather than continue to engage her in text-game or fb chat. I felt like it would just bury me deeper if I kept trying those mediums. Guess I'll just have to hope I see her out again.

Ps. No worries, I'm not a stalker ha.