Hi again, my first post after my intoduction, as I said before I am not into becoming worlds be pua just trying to get a little smoother and know better how to handle situations.
I notice a lot of pu is quickness orientated and if it doesnt come off then move on which is all good if you are just after one thing etc.
What about longer game? I have got women after "gaming" them over a period of weeks maybe this is where my strength lies? Anyway that leads me to my question..
I have been talking with a woman I meet through work for some time now good banter jokes etc no heavy stuff from me as she has a bf, I was just going for friends things from her looked more like possible ioi's ie eye contact, people have noticed her looking at me in "that way", she once told me things were a bit stale with her bf and generally all positives but as I said I was going for friends. Anyway I have asked her for a meet up something simple coffee lunch etc and she flaked getting a friend to tell me she was really shy??? I sort of guessed she may be but it doesnt show when we were talking, anyway havent seen her for a couple of weeks and cant really be bothered to push much more after all it is only friends.
So was wondering if me saying something in the new year along the lines of
" I cant talk to you too much as my resolution is to not to talk to flakey women in 2012" would be too much or if it might jog here into gear so to speak. I got to admit I like her and would like to get to know her. So would like to move it on.
your views would be appreciated.

Nah I wouldn't say that.. Whats the point? You guys arent hanging out anyway, it might insult her, but most importantly it will also probably just look kinda pathetic to her.. You dont want women your trying to game to think you are pathetic, and thats just how it comes off to me.. Don't say it, just do it. You'll have a much better chance at getting this girl that way

wouldnt the not talking to her look a bit sulky? where as I thought the "not talking to flakey women resolution" could be jokey/hinty? do women shit test friends? this is what it seems like?

Its not sulky unless your not talking to her because you are sulking.. You should be not talking to her because you dont associate with women who are super flakey in general. There are too many other women out there.. just be open about this, and mean it. There's no reason to hide that behind "making a resolution", it just makes it sound/look pathetic like I said.

If your interested in her and you want her to be interested in you, dont be friends with her. It's not in the cards. You have to be willing to walk, ya know? Its not something you say to her one time, its an attitude you display from the beginning with your words and actions

I cna go with that, what happens if she asks why I am not talking to her anymore?

Usually I'll say something along the lines of "i dont have time for women who dont have time for me, youv got my number if you want to try to get back on my radar"