hey guys,

Ive been dating this girl for the last couple of weeks, she's new in town, it all started when I was the one showing her around town. We spent great times, doing all kind of stuff togehter almost every day and having sex. She claims she's not interested in having a relationship, neither am I, but here's what happened...

she told me, she met a guy someday, somewhere, who she felt pretty attracted to. well, after they met for a second time, she told me, that she is more than interested in him, and that we shouldn't go on like we did in the past weeks.
she was basically sayin, she never should have started a sexual relationship with me, and wants to be friends (without benefits)...

as I'm not really interested being friends either, is there any may I can make her change her mind?

Why would you want to do that?
You say that you're not interested in a relationship or a friendship.
You got laid, thats good, but you shouldn't keep fucking her more
than the booty you actually got its obvious you're taking the advantage of the fuck, and specially not try to make it into a fuck buddy relationship after what she told you. Respect what she said and be her friend. You can still try to make it into a fuck buddy relationship, just dont pressure it. Be her friend. Friend doesn't mean that you have to talk every day or all the time, just talk sometimes.

This is my tactic:
I talk 3-4 times/month with my fuck buddies, thats not alot. Thats not to little, when we talk, we talk for hours because I treat them as my best friend, I ask about advice or whatever that I think of. Then we suddenly miss eachother, and I keep delaying a meeting to make that spark bigger then we hook up and fuck our brains out, kiss goodbye, and meet up again in a month or two. If the girl likes you for who you are, likes to be around you, and you both dont want to be in a relationship, this is a good tactic, specially if you already fucked.

Good luck!

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