So I have these two older ladies at work (have posted a bit about them on here before).

They both playfully argue with me, and turn the conversation sexual.

Girl 1 usually pushes me, or fake hits me out of nowhere, says things like "what are you gonna do about it!?" to challenge me, says "where have you been?" when its only been a few days.

Recent Convo:

she asked me to wear a different color, so I said nope I cant wear white im the bad guy, so she goes "how about pink?" After this I say I can pull that off, so she goes HOW ABOUT PINK UNDERWEARR? I say that isnt a problem, and I tell her i could pull off tightie whities too. she was laughing the whole time.

Girl 2

This one has said everything from "You can dirty me up alot more ways then that", "(my name) has pussy on his mind all the time", and "girls want to ride your pole...i'm only human." BUT NEVER MADE A move to get my number or anything. I tried pulling the number, but she said she was married . She has still been doing all of this every time I see her, despite this. She has kids too.

ALSO Girl 2 has touched my muscles, initiated alot of kino, and I have returned it.



Which one do you think I can close easier?

A girl adding sexual shit like that to conversation is a huge indicator that she is down.

Girl 1 only flirts with ME.

Girl 2 flirts with alot of guys/touches them but not nearly as sexual, so I hear. I can't accept that she only wants attention though! Her statements are SOOOO sexual.

Be aware with women like girl 2.

Something that is never discussed here in these forums is that there are 3 kinds of flirting: flirting to get involved sexualy, flirting to get attention, and flirting because it's fun and/or social.

How many times have you flirted with girls while not being sexualy interested in her?

Girls are like this, and even more. Girls are trained to be social and polite, and flirting is a way too express that. Flirting is fun and social.
Sometimes we flirt to get attention and an ego boost. Everyone knows the type of girl who flirts with you all the time, and the moment you start showing interest and give her attention, that she turns cold on you.

It's understandible that it's hard to seperate the types of flirting and to know the purpose and intention of the flirting.

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I have flirted with girls and not been attracted, but I dont touch them. The other day she comes up to me and goes "look at YOU!" and feels my arms, and honestly this type of flirting is crazy sexual. She is hot, il give her that, but ive never seen a woman get this sexual talking and not be attracted. She touches other guys a bit, but NEVER says things like

You can dirty me up in alot more ways than that!

How could someone say that to a person who they just want attention from?