This is going to be a bunch of word vomit, because im not sure what im asking, I guess I am looking for perspective.

I'm trying to decide if i am in fact, good looking , and if women are just toying with me or not.

Firstly, I am about 300 lbs on a 5'8' frame, I have very wide set shoulders so I don't look obese despite being obese. This is what causes me to think that women are toying with me when they approach me.

Like last weekend, i went out to the bar with some friends, and was dancing like i didn't give a shit, and this group of three girls kept on trying to dance with me. I wasn't feeling it because i was sure they were toying with me. They were the classic 9/10 powder puff "hot girls at the bar". I was convinced they just want to dance "with the funny fat guy". But they were coming on strong, they were dancing on the speaker while i was dancing with my friends a ways away, and they kept on waving me over, and making poutty faces when i didn't come over. Eventually one of these girls came over, grabbed my arm, and dragged me over. I danced with them for a few songs, then went back to my friends, they then left the bar (they were on a pubcrawl)


What causes me to believe that they were toying with me is the fact that they were so dam hot.

This scene plays out in similar ways at different bars I go to.

Other times, women that I consider in my league have grabbed me and started grinding with me, kissing me etc. without me approaching them, other times i get women following me around the dance floor, not talking to me, but always beside me, MM calls it "proximity invitation" or some shit.

Now Is it that i have a hansom face? (If so, i should be a lady killer when i finish losing the weight---- Lost 62 pounds so far!!!), Do i have good body language, or are the hot women just toying with me.

Hurm.... let me distil this into two questions.

What causes women in my league to approach me strongly and make out with me in bars when they pass by guys much much fitter than me? (The guys fitter than me actually try to steal these women from me, but the women reject them and stick with me, witch confuses me to no end)

And from how I described it, Are the "hot chicks" at the bar actually into a fat guy like me, or are they toying with me for lols?





Thanks, and sorry for the crazy rambling.

Anybody?

Just escalate on the HB's

It's pretty obvious to me and probably everyone here, that's why no one has replied.

"These girls are hitting on me what do I do?"

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

The fact that you are obese yet still are willing to put yourself out there is probably what they find so attractive. I remember when I used to be overweight (6'3", 240 lbs at the time), I became very closed off and tried to kind of hide myself. I think that's what most people do when they have a problem with their body image. But since you kind of went against that norm and showed everyone you don't give a shit, that was probably a big turn-on. The part that you screwed up was that you didn't go after them. You somehow managed to do the hard part, but totally fucked up the easy part.

On a sidenote, it's great that you're losing weight. Keep going and don't give up - I know firsthand that it is more than worth the effort in the end.