hey guys need some advice regarding a girl, that Ive been dating for the past four weeks, so she's new in town, and by accindent just lives a five minute walk away from my place, and kinda needed someone to show her around. And thats what I did, til it ended up in bed. As I said, we've been meeting for the past four weeks, and she asked me wheter I had some other girls goin on besides her. I replied 'no', which is the truth, and she claimed she liked this. But then she told me, she has a guy from her home town would want to come over, that is apparently in love with her, and asked me what I felt about this. I said its totally alright, as Im not in a relationship with her, she's free to do whatever she wants... She then claimed, she doesn't want him to come over anyway, and she's gonna tell him not to come.

Okay, all that happend last Tuesday, the guy was supposed to come over last Thursday, but he didn't. Saw her on Friday for the last time, she went back to her home town for the weekend. Asked her on Sunday evening to hang out on Monday, but she said, she wouldn't have the time to meet until Wednesday... so, I asked myself, what she would be doing, because as a matter of fact she doesn't know anyone here besides me.
So I walked down to her house, and saw another car in front of her house, having licence plates of her home town...

I heavily assume, that it is the guy...

so, to make a long story short. If I see her next time, should I ask her what she was doing the other two nights? or wait for her to tell me? what if she doesn't tell?

look, I am not needy or crap like that, but just don't wanna be fooled, just wanna know.

Cheers!
Ben

lol the old stereotype romance. "I don't care about what you do we arn't dating" (5 minutes later) "so who was at your house last night? what'd you two do together? how was he?" I know you don't wanna hear it but that's what I see you saying.
Wait for her to say it, she doesn't need to think your stalking her at her house; and she'll think you don't trust her (even if you do she doesn't need to know that)

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Don't bring it up at any cost but you can trick her into talking about it. The real question here is do you care? It seems like you do and it's ok if you do, but you gotta be clear about your intentions and expectations.

A) If you do care, don't mention the guy but tell her you care about her and ask her to be honest with you. Better yet, win her over with your qualities and your uniqueness. You can seriously make her forget all about the other guy simply by being a higher quality/value man.

B) If you don't care then let it go and just enjoy your time with her.

I know it's almost impossible to not care in a situation like this, specially if you don't have plenty of other girls in your life. So if you care enough to look up the license plate, you care enough to come here and post about, and I get it. You're not alone man. I'd act completely cool, not a SHRED of insecurity but win her over. Make your times together count!

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yeah, look mate. I really dont care, as I said, all I care about is that she's not lying to me. She not th first girl I'm dating, that has another guy besides me. Am totally cool with that, as long as I know...

goin to her place later tonite... curious how it goes.