Hello,

I used to have a facebook account but since I broke up with my ex which I was with for 7 years, I disabled my account so I will get detached from all of her friends and her ofcourse. Now I have the following question. Is it good to start a new Facebook profile, add a few trusted friends and then add people that I meet along the way? I mean this weekend I meat 2 girls through a friend of mine. If I had a facebook I would have added them both and talked to them in a friendly manner. Women tend to like me when I talk to them alone, I am really good at intriging them as long as I have meat them from before.

So what do you guys think? Is it good to add people you meet on Facebook and talk to them at a later stage or is it a useless tool?

Thanks

It's another way to keep in contact with people, but if you can get there phone number, you don't need it.

Yes you are right but adding someone on facebook is fast and easy and its like saying pleased to meet you. I can't go around and ask the phone numbers of all the girls of the table but I could sure add them on Facebook. Its a friendly gesture. Then I can get their phone numbers. I know it sounds silly but I think its something I could do...

Can't speak for anyone else, but Facebook for me is invaluable.

All my social circles use it like crazy, and since I'm a musician it's a great way for promoting myself.

This combined with me being a very social being, creates huge social proof and value for me. The key is being creative, for instance...

I'm a bit of an attention whore. Last week I was really ill, and my life basically sucked. This was bad, as I wasn't meeting any friends, women or keeping my social proof in action.

At the same time, except my closest ones I couldn't just tell people I'm terribly ill and dosing a medicine. That's a huge DLV.

So how did I solve this?

I'm making a series of funny vlogging videos. So I made one about me being really ill, but not caring and doing crazy stuff instead.

The result?

People thought it was REALLY funny and complimented it, but ALSO felt really sorry for me being ill (including my main target). Not only was it a DHV - it also gave me my fill of attention.

A shorter example is that I have a fake relationship on Facebook, for shit and giggles. Not only is this a great way to game the one I'm having the fake relationship with - it triggers preselection and social value.

And that's the magic of Facebook. To archive your successes with life and women, to keep the ball rolling. I could go on and on, but I'll stop here.

Only use it if you're sure you can convey an interesting lifestyle.

I can convey an interesting lifestyle but I was thinking to use facebook just to talk to women for a while before getting their number for a date or their number just to go out as friends with my friends.

I think that sometimes facebook can be used to talk to people instead of posting pictures and comments etc but you never know, when I go out with people they take pictures and those pictures can be tagged to me which will show my attractive social life but I never take pictures or post videos of myself...I just don't have that charisma that other people have...

Can work wonders, but it's tricky to pull off without any social proof. No need to go lengths with videos - just show that you have an interesting life.
Charisma is something you can build up man. You just have to keep breaking your comfort zones.

ohhh I so very agree with this....this is the key element to success in my opinion, that is why it is so difficult....

So I will start a new facebook profile, I have nothing to lose anyway!

only use facebook to get other FB from girls... because girls are more prone to giving their FB than their number + FB is cool because you can learn something about her - if she's fake or not and that kind of shit..

if you are not gaming .. if you are not sarging for whatever reason .. don't FB or social media..it gets addicting.

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Today, you actually get looked at weirdly if you don't have one. Even if you decide not to use it, make one, and just say "I'm not on it often."

I had my fill of both pros and cons using Facebook from a PUA perspective. My favorite pro with it is expressing yourself - Favorite jokes, favorite videos, favorite music, funny pictures, comics (I translate them myself. Most of my FB friends don' speak english or look for funny pics on the same sites as I do, so they are new for pretty much everyone I know). I usually post 2-3 at once, sometimes I skip days. I've made people laugh with comics, funny pics, graphs, I got brofisted by old classmate metalheads when posting a good song, and the less-known, but wise/funny quotes (also translated) are also popular. All my wall photos are funny pics (I make an album for everything else) so sometimes when a new person discovers them, they click like on several pictures in a row, and I already may be a person with good taste and humor in their eyes.

The real-life result: Friends of friends I've never known recognize me from facebook when we are getting introduced in bars and stuff, and I'm instantly a buddy for them. I can ask if they have a favorite - ice broken, and if there are ladies around, social proof. You know the saying, if you say a funny joke, it's just a funny joke, but after you said ten, you are a funny guy.

Thanks everyone. Is it ok to add girls you meet from other friends without asking them? Lets say I meet 2 girls through a friend one night and the next day I add them on facebook. Well I freind request them anyway. Is it ok or is it to suttle?

It's kinda creepy, in my opinion, don't do it.

Depends on how much you interacted with them. If you built lots of attraction it can be cool.

Just remember that adding a girl on Facebook telegraphs interest. In the best case scenario, they'll be the ones sending requests to you.