so i met this girl this weekend.
i was at the bar and this girl waved to me, she was w/ her friend so i walked over and said hello. The girl that waved was eh, but her friend was cute. Talked a bit and found out the cute 1 is from the same town as me. At that point we both ignored her friend and kept talking, (usually a no no i know, but she left us alone and the hb didnt have a problem.) I gave her a hard time saying that she was lying since i've never seen her before and she's only a year older than me.

I told her i was going to go eat w/ my friends and i said, why dont you give me your number. she obliged and said "text me".
I thought this was weird. but w/e, i'm gonna text her and see what happens.

i'm waiting 3 days to text (tomorrow being the 3rd day). do you guys have any ideas what direction to go w/ my message? maybe i'll call her a liar about being from my hometown again?

Don't know why you are waiting. Strike while the iron is hot! The longer you wait the closer she gets to writing you off. Message her about something you discussed when you were together and continue getting to know her better.

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Yeah I've learned the wait more than 3 days to txt is kinda stupid
You're letting all the attraction fade away then reminding her if it and giving her the chance to say "hi" back again or not. It's putting the ball in her court.
Text her anything fun that involves the two of you, remind her about that funny thing you said when you first met her, and set up a date

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so would you text the same night, or the day after?
and do you do the same thing if you're calling the girl?

thanks for your help

The same night we met I usually send a fast text like "Pleasure meeting you" then I call or text more the next day.

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i appreciate the help.

so we've sent a few texts. when would be a good time to ask her to hang out. (this is only the first day texting).

also any ideas what to do? drinks, coffee? its freezing where i am at the moment