The HB ive been gaming...


Well instead of being out of town on saturday she went out here instead and met up with us with some of her girl friends.


We k-closed pretty much within 5 mins of meeting up in the club we were all at. I get on well with her friends and when we were outside her friend said something about us...I was pretty wasted so cant remember what but it was some kind of pun...good natured etc.


Again she was holding my hand and going for cigarettes alone with me etc, we went back to a friends flat (about 10 of us) and all came down in the lounge. She ended up under a cover with me lying on me...the room was packed but I still tried to move my hand south only for her to stop me subtley.


We agreed to go for drinks this week...I dont get paid until saturday night so she is paying for us to do something this evening...a gig in town. This is a good sign she is willing to pay for us tonight ? Im gonna return the favour at the weekend.


Also, last time we went out she sent a text about her friend's brother saying we are 'such a cool good looking couple' even though Ive never asked her out...

Well this week she pretty much repeated it, saying one of her friends who was out with us on saturday said were really 'passionate' together.


I think I have little to worry about now. It feels pretty chill.


What do people think of her paying for us tonight?


Should I do anything differently to maintain attraction etc?



thanks

If she doesn't trust you with money, she could start getting annoyed at you because she might not think you'll pay her back, if you give some insurance that you will, then it's fine. I think this is a good sign, because she's willing to hang out with you again after this. Or else she wouldn't be spending money on you.

Last night we went to a club out of town, the guy were friends with and one of her lady friends came along.

We ended up k closing again and pretty much all of the way back she was holding my hand in the car, squeezing it etc.


At one stage she arched across the back seat sideways and put her head on my lap to kiss me... body language wise this is a very good sign yeah?


Anyway, we're going for drinks on friday afternoon...just us 2. This is our first proper 'drinks' alone...


So thats 5 weeks....about 8 k closes with this girl...





How/when should I ask her about boyfriend/girlfriend kinda scenarios for us?



Pretty into her

[quote="2:35"]So thats 5 weeks....about 8 k closes with this girl...





How/when should I ask her about boyfriend/girlfriend kinda scenarios for us?
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Why would you ask about boyfriend/girlfriend shit? You haven't even boned her yet. Just let it all happen in it's own time man.

I take it you're pretty young but.

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Do I have to fuck her before anything relationship wise gets proposed?


I'm having fun with her, she is cool. We get on really well. My big fear is being friend zoned by her, because its happened all too often to me.


That, and someone else catching her eye... Im doing things right at the moment but I dont want it to go stale.

- Shes stopped me from trying to put my hands in her panties a few times now...keep on trying?

Sounds like you are going wwwaaayyyyy ttoooooo sssslllloooooowwwwwwww.....

Fuck her NOW!!!

I've been in 4 relationships and every single one I had sex with her BEFORE we got into a relationship, actually 2 of those I fucked on the first night I met her.

Yes you're right, you are at risk of being friendzoned or someone else catching her eye, there's a high probability she is going to get bored with you.

These days man I really shoot for that F-close, I go hard and fast, I have a clear objective, if I'm with a girl my goal is to F-close THAT DAY, not tomorrow not next week THAT SAME DAY!!! And I shoot for that big time. I escalate and escalate, I tease her, I touch her, I playfully try to undress her, I'll do anything but damnit man I'M F-CLOSING THAT BITCH TONIGHT!!!

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