I met a girl on match who is beautiful, smart, good personality. She's texted me some hot pics already, we've been talking for about a month and I don't want to waste anymore time. Is it worth it to fly out to meet her? Have you ever done something similar?

Do you think it is worth it? If so, then it probably is.

Do you need us to tell you how much you should like this girl? We couldnt possibly know.

If she is special for you and you think that she thinks that you are special to her too, go for it. Especially if you are going for the LTR. If not, dont even bother.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Ofc not. Only one girl you should do that.

Is the one blowing your dick.

Lets be honest, she can be playing you, maybe she an ugly bitch.

Even if she is hot girl , i believe also hot girls live on your town and you can see it for real how they look like.

Perhaps you go there hoping to get lay, and the only thing happen is she eating an ice cream with you.

SO RESPONDING YOUR ANSWER NOT IN MILION YEARS.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

I don't want to settle down for a couple more years, but I really like her and would like to get to know her better. So because I'm not looking to settle down right now, you think I should pass?

I've already seen her on SPAM. She's not messing with me. I'll be staying at her place if I go to see her. But for you guys, how hot would the girl need to be for you to actually get on the plane and go? I'm just asking that question out of curiosity I guess.

No.

Actually . . . how old are you? If you're under 40, the answer is no.

If you are 45 or so and you've never had a girlfriend your whole life and you've tried every dating website and couldn't find ANYBODY within 50 miles of your zip code to respond to you in anyway, then go for it.

What kinda cooky girl invites a stranger cross state lines for a first date or a nookie session?

Pictures are decisive.
-Ugly girls look hot from angles
-Fat chicks look skinny from angles
-Crazy girls look not crazy from angles

Be very sure you want to spend the energy and money to see her. And if you only want to bang, get a hooker, it'll be cheaper.

^This . . . and your original question all points to YOU having few alternatives. You're not ready for a relationship . . . so what's the plan? You're going to hop on a plane to hopefully fool around with this girl? Why not just pay for a hooker and get yourself a sure thing?

LOL I'm 28, good looking, plenty of options where I live. I just like her and want to get to know her better. She didn't invite me to stay with her. I sort of asked her to let me. I said I'd stay in a hotel too, but that I'd rather stay with her. She seems totally normal. If I'm gonna fly see her, why would I stay in a hotel?

I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship, but PUA isn't just about getting into a relationship, right? It's about having fun with hot women, no?

LOL . . .Nope . . . ^this is an impossibility. You'd be like a millionaire who's asking for the best corner to panhandle for quarters.
If so, what's wrong with all the options for hot women in your area code?

Lol its about what you want it to be.

If you want see her go ahead.

Ive been in this situation and was even offered a plane ticket, but still didnt go. Going thousand of miles for a first date to have fun is a silly and confusing move.

If you are rich and fly everywhere all the time its nothing, but if you have a 9-5 job and barely fly its a desperate move.

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Kasabi, I'm pretty sure I know what I look like. I'm a good looking dude and make six figures. I have no problem picking up women, but I like adventure.

I do fly a lot, so it's not THAT big of a deal.

STILL no one has answered the fucking question. How hot would a girl need to be for you to do it?

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Ive been in this situation and was even offered a plane ticket, but still didnt go. Going thousand of miles for a first date to have fun is a silly and confusing move.
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You should never take something of monetary value from a woman that early on anyway. Makes you look like a loser. Eff that noise.

I answered it many times over.

No if you're under 40.

Yes if you're over 45, desperate and your opportunity cost is a fatty who hangs out on the corner of your local 7-11.

Do you understand why your question can't be / shouldn't be answered with an "HB10" or "HB 20"?

For 99% of all members here, the answer is NO. For you . . .you decide. You know you have a lot of hot chicks all around you that you can pick up readily. so you're telling us that all of this is for its 'adventure' value. Hey, I'd imagine panhandling to be quite the adventure too but you won't see me doing it anytime soon.

Good answer. I would say "HELL NO", unless it was more about just getting out of town and taking a vacation.

Only way I'd do it if it were Christina Hendricks calling to see if I wanted her to fly me out to LA for the weekend. Then I would go. Other than a scenario like that, I'm not flying anywhere for any woman.

And what happens if you two actually hit it off? Are you ready to have a long distance relationship, or move out there, or have her come move in with you? Not alot of options there, and a LDR is an incredible PITA.

Well, the obvious exception being if the lady in question is your girlfriend or soon to be girlfriend. I have flown over great distances to be with my significant other and there is nothing wrong with that.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn