So this wasn't really a big deal and everything actually turned out really good but I am just wondering from more experienced people what is the best way to respond to a HB when she calls you on your freeze out?

I've been in a very strange relationship with this chick for the past couple months and she is pretty damn confusing. At one point last week it had seemed like shit hit the rocks, she was more distant than usual etc. So I didn't completely freeze her out but I basically stopped paying attention to her for any longer than her text messages would go (not long). This went on the rest of the week, we would randomly text but not much, which was a significant change from previous. This further set it in my mind that our little thing was over.

Then she calls me out.

Her: Do you hate me?
Me: No why would I hate you?
Her: You never talk to me anymore.
Me: Not on purpose.
Her: I hope not.

From here she mentioned missing me, missing hanging out etc and invited me to do something the next day, and then followed that up with plans to make dinner together later this week. So I'm not complaining at all, the freeze out actually turned the tables here, but I was really caught off guard and didn't know how to respond. What do you guys usually say/do in this situation?

It depends on the situation, and basically how balls to the wall you feel like you need to go. There have been times where I was asked basically the same question, and generally your response should display that you aren't mad or emotionally phased or anything by her, and that the reason that you are distant is because you are busy with your own life and other women who don't give you reasons to freeze them out (Obviously don't tell her you froze her out though..) and from there start running game on her again. However, there have been a couple times where I felt like I was borderline losing the girl anyway and not really interested in putting in more effort, so when they called me out on being more distant then usual or being mad at her or whatever, I just put it all out on the table.. Basically would tell her that I wasn't mad but I was all done trying to connect with her because it wasn't working out and I wasn't feeling her attitude towards me or whatever. This has had about a 50/50 success rate for me - sometimes they have started putting in overtime trying to get back on my radar, and sometimes they have just fallen off the map and that was the end of it.

Just keep in mind the goal of your freeze out - to snap her back to attention. Once she has, there's no need to carry it on. But you should never, ever admit to a girl that you are deliberatly being distant and unavailable in an attempt to sneakily get her more interested in you. If you just maintain that the reason is you are busy with your life and/or seeing other women, her brain will do the rest for you

You did fine, K. Response should be totally nonchalant if questioned. Idea being you've been so busy with life you haven't had time to get in touch.