Hi

So i posted about a week ago that a girl I had been seeing for sometime, someone who I am really into (she really could be the one), sent me a message saying that she didnt know what she wanted right now and was really confused about everything. Basically she didnt want to take it further and felt it was becoming a relationship, something she didn't want right now as she had been in a 5 year relationship that ended badly in May this year.

I couldn't believe that this was 100% as the chemistry we had was amazing, she would be so keen towards me but I think the past couple of weeks started to go down hill because she started to get cold feet and I may of started to become a bit needy, but there was no denying she didnt have feelings for me, she told me she loved me literally 2 days before sending me that message.

So i treated the situation as her giving herself excuses not to be come emotionally involved for fear of complicating her life or whatever.

Anyway I was really cold on the texting, I havent text her 1st at all, yet everyday she would FB message me or text me or something so I knew she was still there. Yesterday she asked if we could have a catch up in the week to which I agreed.

Now for some reason, I'm unsure how to approach this "Catch up". I want to show her that I'm back to my old self, the guy she first met that was fun and on point with his game, the guy that made her mad for me. Because I'll be honest that a couple of weeks ago i started to lose my game and start to become needy with this one.

So i'm just looking for some advice on how to approach this. I obviously don't want to come across as a nob, but also don't want to seem like I don't give a shit anymore.

Any helps appreciated.

Cheers

Personally, I just do this for every situation, no matter what girls say. Girls, they don't know what they want. Just escalate and more escalate, if she's not going to respond positively now, i don't see what waiting will do.