| Started going out and approaching since mid august, around october things started changing for me. i've been about 30 times since mid august
Basically i have no game at all, i guess what i do have is a i dont give a fuck if you don't like me mindset...and weirdly enough girls get hooked to it
Not looks either: i'm 5'5, minority, not jacked, somewhat of a beer belly, huge nose, hairy, somewhat crooked bottom teeth, weird hair right now, glasses at the moment not the
like girls who blow me out when i'm trying to say hi, are all the sudden hooked in again maybe because they see that i don't give a fuck? idk
I have no gameplan, i just jump right in...i have no clue what i say half of the time. I do stupid things for no reason at all
I don't talk very loudly to girls, they apologize for being deaf
I do wear nice clothes, but nothing that would standout...it's really traditional/conservative clothing. pastels lots of them. Preppy attire basically. Chinos, button-downs: ralph lauren, brooks brothers, vineyard vines, and J crew are big in my closet
but again J crew doesn't even have logos..li
regardless
i still don't think i have game...i just jump in and take a leap of faith...even bad interactions become good i dont know why. this change started happening after going out sober for a month.
just involves the girls just talking their hearts out to me for no reason at all. I'm not very high energy i don't stand out at all. i don't even tell girls i go to Yale anymore
Maybe it's that i randomly developed some intuitive sense as to which girls want me and which dont. and this has nothing to do with looks. There are hotter girls that i approch than ones that i can't get myself to approach. And this is independant of the situation.
One night a few weeks ago, i just jumped into a set of 4 guys, 3 girls and just started talking to the girl...i got "amoged" by everyone...and basically took exactly waht they said and agreed with it and took myself to an extreme, the girl was like freaking out..then i look at the girl i was takling to who was acting weird and i'm like "listen, i want to tell you something, she leans closer and all of the sudden we are alone talking for the next like 20 minutes together]
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