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I agree with you right up until "sluts". That has such a negative social connotation while it's not something that should be looked down upon. If everyone would just wake up one day and realise that life's, which obviously includes people's (gender non-specific) only(!) goal is to continue itself (i.e. procreate) the world would make a lot more sense and we wouldn't blame women for doing what is basically the point of their existence..
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I hate the double standard here. So if a women sleeps with alot of guys she's a "slut", which is meant to be a derogatory term.
Aren't alot of guys here on this site to learn how to pick up and sleep with alot of women? So how is that different or better?
What's the male version of "slut", because that's what we are then.
Why does there have to be a difference? Women like to get laid just as much as guys do, so what? I like that fact. Nothing wrong with it at all.
Just realize that men AND women are both very sexual beings, and skip the labels or double standards.
I once met a girl in a bar, and ended up sleeping with her that night. Did I call her a slut and look down at her for it? NO, because what would that make me? I did exactly the same thing as her. We met, we're both adults, we had a fun night. Nothing wrong with that at all, and no reason to look down at her or call her names.
It's just because of the stereoptype and image that's been put out over the years that nice girls don't enjoy sex, and it's the woman's job to hold out and make men wait for it. Well, when they do that, it's more of a control thing than anything, they want it just as bad as we do.
Just keep in mind that in that aspect, men and women are more a like than we think, or have been raised to think.