Im not a big texter and generally rather phone up the girl but there are some instances where a text is deemed appropriate - such as the same night you had a "date".

After parting with the girl I generally send a text just to ask whether she got home ok (I figured its a mans job to check that she got home safely). Is that a good thing?


For example last friday I texted "let me know when you get home safely" and got a response saying "im home now - it was nice seeing you tonight"

What other texts are there to kind of finish off a date or a meet up etc.

this isn't rocket science talk about something that happened during the date

i don't like texting much

but most of the texts i send are just rhetorical statements that don't even need responses

You should've texted her

So am I getting a blowjob today or is that for the third date?

I know its not rocket science but was curious.

I dont send questions I do generally send statements. But obviously she needs to tell me when she gets home safely (she doesnt live in the safest part of London and youre talking about midnight - bad combo)

I do that too. Keep it short. Never had a bad response.

If not in person, Always call to set the next date.

In person is better than phone, phone is better than text.

Other than making sure she got home safely, I don't see the purpose of texting after a date.

If you're more entertaining over text than in person, then that will pose a serious issue. So try not to put yourself in that position cause it's very easy to be assertive over text. Not as easy to be assertive in person.

I hardly ever text right after, or thes ame night, I don't want to be like Mikey from Swingers, haha. (If you haven't seen the movie, WATCH IT!)

I usually text the next day, to tell her I had a nice time and we should do it again soon.

I haven't had the best luck with that recently.

Although I think if she's into you, she'll be glad to get that text, if not, well then you probably won't get a reply and it won't matter either way.

Or in my case the last few times, "Thanks, I had fun too", and then no further responses.

I'm gonna stop sending that text actually, I think I need to come up with soemthing better for the day after.