Scene: 3 guys, including me, and 1 chick.

I usually do this at night at bars, and it works great. Girls think I'm funny... and there's a fun flirty vibe in the air. So I tried during the day on a religious chick right..

I was just doing stupid stuff like playing with my food with my tongue, and looking at her. My boys were laughing, I was laughing. She slightly smiled and looked away, then she said, "I know you're trying to turn me on, but it's not working" or some shit like that.

Then when we were in the car I was hitting some more. My boys were enjoying the show. Then as I was talking to one of my homies, she slaps my hand and says, "You've already invaded my personal bubble. You're not that hot. Move your hand" or something.

As I got dropped off to my car, she starting cracking up and said "That's your car!? A pimped out car" and started lol'ing everywhere. I was sarcastic and just said "Shuttup! I'm never talking to u again".

As I was leaving I shook my boys hands, as I did I kissed there hands just b/c it'd be funny. She comments on it. I say goodbye to all of it and dip.

So, was she shit testing me? Or am I really invading her personal bubble and need to save my hitting game for night only?

I noticed before I started hitting on her, her interaction with all of us guys were pretty equal. Then once I started hitting on her she gave more attention to me.

1, dont kiss guys infront of a girl you want to game. EVER!

2, hard to tell without hearing her tone and knowing the whole context, but i doubt she was serious. sounds like she was into you based on her slapping your hand, making fun of your car etc.. You did fine when you told her you were never gonna talk to her again.. keep running game on her. Whats the problem here? Besides the fact that your kissing your buddies..

I pretend I'm gay whenever I feel like it, I don't give AF. I even told her when she called me out on hitting on her.. I said something like, "No, it's ok. I'm gay. You really don't have to worry." And she just smiled.

Anyone who knows me knows I'm not really gay.

I appreciate your input though.

I hate to burst your bubble but i can't imagine how insanely unattractive and offputting this must be to a woman who was thinking she might want to fuck you.. What kind of girl wants a man who is going to pretend he is gay whenever he feels like it? There is nothing alpha about it. You are either saying "i am a little fairy boy", "I like to pretend i am a little fairy boy", or "i am too scared to act on my attraction towards you, so i'm going to front like im a little fairy boy so you let your guard down".. You should stop doing that dude holy shit, never in my life

For the record I have no problem with gay men. To each their own. But a straight guy, coming on this forum and asking for advice about picking up women, is going to get my honest opinion about how detrimental kissing guys infront of his potential dates and generally acting gay must be to his game whether he realizes it or not

You dumbass. This is a religious chick, eg she is waiting until marriage. I could really careless. I do what I feel like, and I felt like kissing my niggaz hand, real nigga. Fuck being alpha, the word "alpha" makes me cringe. Makes me think of some virgin on a PUA forum who's a keyboard jockey.

Real talk. Whenever I see a guy and girl together, that could possibly be dating, I hit on the guy. It cracks the girl up, cracks me up, cracks my boys up. I'm all about having a good time, fuck "being alpha".

Side Note - I really didn't kiss my homies hands. It was close though.

Btw, I don't feel like I was trying to "game" her. She was with us, so I just wanted to have a fun time.

Yeah great, you crack everybody up. Eventually you will get sick of not getting laid, and hopefully you remember this advice: women don't drool over the guy who is acting like a clown.. they drool over the alphas. Whether or not you understand and relate with the term alpha has literally nothing to do with the changes you should make in your behavior. Unless your happy with the amount of new women you currently meet/date/sleep with on a weekly basis.. in that case, keep doing what you're doing. But I'd bet a pretty penny that clown attitude combined with your "IM GAY" cherade gets you a couple cheap laughs and pretty much zero pussy. Just sayin.
So what is the point of this thread then? If your not trying to game her then who gives a shit

To know if I was seriously invading her personal space or not. I mentioned it in the OP if you didn't read... but maybe you didn't b/c you commented on gay remarks.

EDIT: I'm not even going to front, I don't get laid every other day. Never have. However, women have been more receptive to me now than before... I definitely see progress. Before this, I was trying routines... methods.. and other shit I didn't like. I wasn't being me which bothered me!

Being alpha doesn't mean you have to be yourself. It means you have to be yourself at its best. (Whether it be funny or not)

Did you forget what women list as number #1 when it comes to guys. "He has to have a good sense of humor".

I answered this in my first response.. It is impossible for us to know, there is basically no context on the interaction, hell you didn't even say how exactly you were in her space. We can't hear her tone of voice. I did mention that I doubted she was serious though.

You may find girls will let you invade their personal space if you start playing your cards right.

Not this religious chick. She is more of a friend than someone I want to fuck. As a friend, I don't seriously want to invade her space, but a little flirting won't hurt anyone.

Of course girls will let you invade there personal space. You hardly have to try when you're in the right environment... at night.

Btw, back to you saying something about be alpha not funny.



Video explains itself. He's not actually a "pua" so he doesn't # close on cam or anything, he's a rapper/comedian, but I'm sure this dude has vagina on deck. Our style of game is similar...

If she's just your friend, then you have nothing to lose frame-wise.. So you'd be better off asking HER if you actually invaded her space, rather then a bunch of guys on the internet who don't know either of you and weren't there.

Plenty of us game during the day. You missed the point anyway - but that's OK, you can lead an OP to water but you cant make him drink

Ay Bay Bay good job man. It doesn't make a difference if you act gay or not as long as your having fun and are confident anything will work. If your confident enough and have a strong frame you can go from this gay like guy to an alpha male in a instance. Now, to get to the question "So, was she shit testing me?". The answer is simple who cares. As an alpha male you have the right to do whatever YOU THINK is ok to do. Now, lets say it was a shit test. Then your good cause you passed the shit test. If it was not a shit test and you did in fact invade her personal bubble who cares! She'll go her way and you'll go your way. You had your fun and you didn't lose out anything. In fact she might even be more attracted because she'll see your a guy who doesn't care of what she thinks and you live in your own world and you have your own standards and values. Girls are attracted to these type of guys. Girls don't want guys that can be thrown off their game. Good luck!

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Damn, you speak the truth brotha!!! Good ish!

Naw, he speaks what you want to hear. There's a big difference between being funny (good) and being the clown (bad), distinguish between the two and prosper. Also, I stand by there being no room for acting gay when it comes to picking up women. What EXACTLY do you think women find attractive about a guy who is into other guys? You are basically faking the one quality that is the exact opposite of anything and everything a woman fundamentally wants.. It doesnt make sense. I'm all about being yourself.. but just because you like picking your nose, and you dont care who knows it or sees it, doesnt magically make picking your nose an attractive quality to women just because you are "being yourself". Same thing.