Went out last night. Previously I would have never thought a girl at a strip club would be possible to obtain...but I tried some stuff which had some sort of success, and that got me thinking "Well, why not?"

The following paragraph is a more optional part of this post, and is related to a second question "Did I tackle this correctly at all?":
Basically this stripper sat down next to me as they do and was doing her job by asking for a dance etc, I changed the subject, refrained from looking at her boobs and acting interested, challenged her SLIGHTLY (I wasn't in my complete comfort zone to do this properly, but I basically acted like I really didn't want a lap dance to the point where I was blurting stuff out like "Nah I can't, seriously. I'm tired as. And broke! Besides I'm gay anyway" which seemed to make her laugh a bit). Then we started talking about complete random stuff, like how she got into her career and wanted something new but didn't know what she wanted in life. I asked what she had a passion for etc, she said she doesn't know what she's good at. Eventually I said something which got to her a little in a good way (I think, I really can't tell with girls who are paid to act interested) but basically it went something like
"What are you good at?"
"I know I'm good at this...but I don't know what I want to do at all" (in a nearly sad tone)
"Well you are good looking, so yeah as a dancer you are good...but beauty is common, it doesn't really mean anything. You meet goodlooking girls every day - but what stood out to me, after knowing you for such little time, is that you are "interpersonally intelligent". Aside from this being your job, you have a quality to connect with people, and that is very rare. As far as work goes, try customer service I'm thinking." blah blah
And she seemed quite flattered at this, in what appeared to be a genuine way. She responded with a "Do you really think so?" sort of question.
Anyway as a general conversation, it went quite well in my opinion, as it felt like she was listening to my advice and may have seen me as at least different to the average customer.
HOWEVER I don't think that sort of talk alone is enough.


a) How do you treat these kinds of girls to score? As much detail as possible if you will!
b) Was I on the right track at all? Really won't take offence if you think what I tried would never have worked. Because that's all it was, a try. And worth a try

Cheers guys

For as tricky as you might think the PUA community is, strippers are 10x more crafty. They give off IOIs that don't really mean anything. They throw all kinds of intentional body language your way to seduce you and make you think they genuinely give a fuck about you. But the truth is, at the end of the day, they just want what's in your wallet. I wouldn't bother trying to pick up a stripper, personally.

Funny trick for next time: tell them you're in med school. I'd say around 60-70% of them will say they are too, and they're just stripping to pay for it.

@ snarg
WOW! I see u have not been around strippers much in a 'non clientel' way don't have friends who r strippers.

All the myths u hear about strippers r bullshit and they know it so they play along in order to keep a reminder to herself that u 'the customer' r just that! NOTHING MORE!

@ century 100

The best thing u did was saying no to the lap dance. The 'im gay' thing, they won't go for because strippers have a sense of wanting someone who has something to offer (not necessarily money) but as a lifestyle. Y do u think most strippers go with rockstars? In my case, tattoo artists? Drug dealers? Photographers, Ect.

Reason is because we have a similar job (our services make our money = entrepreneurial mindset) as them but not a regular job as their customers. THE LAST THING they want to go to wen they leave their job is that her boyfriend views her as her clients do (a sex object) they don't want to hear u saying that they look beautiful (ALL her clients say that to her)

The lifestyle we live is overgrown with beautiful sexy women...so WE HAVE GREAT OPTIONS in women that want us and she sees that we chose HER.

Unless u have something different to offer (again not necessarily money), I won't recommend it.

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-TOAST

you don't.

i have.

it never ends well.

fuck strippers, literally, fuck them, as in "dick in pussy" fucking.

don't date them.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!