So back around thanksgiving i f-close this hb 9. get her number and we have a few texts back and forth after that but dont get together again and then I leave, I'm from out of town.

I get back in town. I don't call or text her or anything but then I see her out. I quickly pull her off of 2 others guys that are hitting on her hard and the whole night is eye contact and lots of touching between us.

Later I push for logistics to get back to her place and she says she can't because of her monthly thing but if I want I can still come back to her place but that she is just gonna pass out, and she also has to work at 9 am.

We go outside to smoke and make out in private out there and basically talk about how we are gonna fuck soon and she is saying 'call me or texting me or whatever, i'll be waiting by my phone, blah blah".

So my question is did I play it right by deciding to call for a ride rather than going home with her with no chance to f*ck? i figured it would be weird, needy, boyfriendish to just go back knowing sex couldn't happen and we'd just cuddle.

You made the right choice if you're looking to just be a fuck buddy, if you went back to her place she could have gave you a blowjob though.

Unless you want to start being the boyfriend for her, you made the right choice.

You could have persisted and told her that you don't care about blood, until the point she was so turned on she would let you anyway, but yeah, if you know for sure nothing is going to come out of it, it's different. But you never know for sure, right?