So i'm gaming this girl who lives a state away through text, she's coming to visit in the next 2 weeks. Heres my dilemma.

I told her she was "the abusive type who only wanted to use me for sex"

She said "Thats so not true! I'm not abusive, i love you for your personality..."

I told her that i could see right through to her hidden agenda.

she came back with "I truly love you with all my

How old is this girl?, that's one thing that puts me off younger girls. If shes not that young, then I would probably drop her. My opinion.

However, if you do really want this girl, then you should wait a few days and then change the subject.

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i'm 19, she's 18.
She came at me with it again on facebook when i didnt reply to her text.

I love this new fangled power i possess. WOMEN BE MINE!

I have had several friends in the same situation and many girls like that are difficult to deal with and unfortunately there is some immature brainwave that is drawing her to you the wrong way.

I would not tell her that you were just looking for sex, because that will end poorly. But you have to actually say to her something such as "Look XYZ, I have no problem with you and you are very attractive, but we are not ready for anything this serious at the moment."

Honestly the guys I know who left this to go on made things worse by continuing to talk to her and there is still a chance that she will still be stalkerish. Lucky your in another state. I hope she doesnt know your address.

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I think you guys are really 'over analyzing' this, it sounds like she's just joking around dude, she's trying to have some fun with you. Don't take yourself so seriously.

Then again, maybe she's batshit crazy.

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i vote for crazy.

since after given a chance to return the jest,

she said "I AM SERIOUS. I LOVE YOU."

lol

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I just sortah avoided it. Then a bit later I pulled some more your just wanting sex from me shit, and she sent me a big text saying she's not like that, and thats not all she wants from me. I told her she's cool and i'd hang out with her with or without sex, but that doesnt mean i dont want to fuck her. I also asked what she wants from me. She went on to explain that she will have sex with me, but wants to get to know me better because I seem like an amazing person.

So i dont think she was joking. She just "loves" my pua incorporated personality, thats what this stuff suppose to do.

If she does end up trying to date me I have the excuse of "i'm in a band, and dont want a relationship with anybody right now." That line has never failed me.

She's sooo fine, so I'm gonna continue to game her, cause I wanna see her bathroom parts.

Thanks for your guy's input. This community is the shit.

Thats good, I find its the younger girls (or the 35+ ones that have not married yet) that will splurt that "I REALLY REALLY LOVE YOU!" stuff. Sometimes they may just be a little antsy about losing you.

and its good that you recovered her sanity, lets see if it stays however...

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Her sanity was lost again. Fuck, I'm tempted to say it back, but I know thats not a good idea. What do I reply to that with??

tell her "ok", but she might have to share you with Trixy, or Candy, or anyone else who catches your eye

Id use those names to, so if you need to introduce her to them you can go to any strip club anywhere and tell them to play along

but honestly my advice probably shouldn't be fallowed