She used to be an old friends gf and she's a part of my larger social circle.

We went out a saturday almost three years ago and she was showing a lot of IOI's.

But her ex (my old friend) was still inlove with this chick and they actually got together for a while.

I join army few months later and did not speak to her.

I meet her about a year since that saturday and she was still giving me a lot of IOI's.
We were flirty. But I did not escalate.

1/2 later, another try. But again, I failed escalating. I thought this was over (!)

I actually meet her a few month later when I was really confident (in a flow).

Now I became physical and was escalating. But I did not K-close. I thought like; "no, I'm trying to forget her, I don't care anymore." - Because I was starting to like another girl now.

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I met her last weekend with our larger social circle. And she was not getting up on me!

Two of her ex's was there. And those two ex's is a part of this circle. So she might be very comfortable with having sexual partners among her friends.

She was gining a lot of kino even infront of her ex's and was telling how much she missed me.

So

Now, I've been her at the forum and been learning, so I don't want to screw this up. Im a virgin at the age of 21 soon 22 so I need this experience.

Im not having one-itis, but I wanna seduce her so bad.

How should I keep my frame? There already is a sexual tension in the air. I just have to push the on bottom.

If you want to fuck her so bad.. get off the internet, get her out alone, have a few drinks and then pull the trigger.

You said it yourself man, "There already is a sexual tension in the air. I just have to push the on bottom." In other words, what are you waiting for.

Yeah, I kinda know what to do. But I've been thinking about to much so from being confident and happy Im now a bit worried.

I was texting her today about if she was going to be at a friends place this weekend and she has not answared.

But I've been reading so much posts here about other people worrying about same shit, unnecessarily.

I just have to keep my head cold..

Do you know a place to take her were we can be more physical? If not a club of course...

Are you planning to go out at night or day? You can go for strolls in both night and day, easy to be physical with them while walking.

I might be seeing her this weekend at a christmas fair were she's gonna work.

Im thinking of stop by just before she quit. So a stroll there might be.

Last time we were taking a walk I did not know how to escalate and K-close. Now I know how, but I've never done it.

If I just hug her, and keep her close and looking in her eyes silenly (60yoc method), the sexual tension will rise, then I don't need to talk so much (which is one of my weaknesses).

When you go for a walk, take the lead and say "lets sit down right here" and if she follows easy then she automatically knows you're in charge and that you're doing your job. Sit down comfortably and let her adjust her body towards you.

Thanks. Yes, she has been sitting on my knee before, and she wants to do that again.

I will post how this went on my Field report-site