So my ex and I have been talking recently and might get back or might not. But basically, when i think about her, i just remember good things. She had an Amazing personality, liked a lot of similar things i do, we had a lot of common, and we basically connected a lot. However, we had a bunch of physical moments too which i would enjoy at the time like any horny guy would, but going back remembering it.. it's not something i care for everyday. It's not like i dont like like physical things, i am 18 and still very horny, but basically just liked the more emotional side of her. shes a pretty cute looking girl, and has a nice body too but i wouldnt say 'hot'.

So basically, i think i'm probably attracted to the fact of having the perfect gf that really likes you a lot, you guys have a lot in common, and everything works good, but then i cant tell.. if we work so good together, but im not that physically attracted to her when i should be, does that mean she's not the one or what?
(and we broke up cuz of parents, but she never wanted to so yea..)

I had my definition of the PERFECT GF cuz it was both mental and physical and broke up because of her parents.

Honestly, if u believe u still have not finished the relationship by the choosing of one of the 2 of u, I say get back and enjoy the mental attrctiveness. Don't be worrying about the physical too much unless it is effecting u so much that u feel YOU want out.

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Another thing is that my ex and I had awsome sex and consistently but the thing I most miss about her is that we were able to speak to each other on a level of understandment.

Now I'm hundreds of miles away from her, don't loose what is good because of other people's opinions. The relationship and it choices r only for the 2 to decide upon.

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Being physically attracted to the person you're with is extremely important. there's no was of covering it up

Yea i agree with both of you. I dont think sexual/ physical attraction should be the only reason or a big part of a relationship but shud be there. but it's wierd, like sometimes i'd think of her in a physical way and lose all of the emotions for her completely like shes just another person i know and thats it. but then sometimes i'd remember her and remember a bunch of different reasons why shes really cool person.
I can't tell if i'm still too young for relationships thats why i lose interest at times, or other stuff, but yea.. no idea

Well there's my point, u loose complete attraction when u think of her physically.

So in that case, prepare ur gear cuz it's time for u to go fishing!

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Yeah it's called being FRIENDS

tough concept I know