Hi there, I would really like to get some help from you! I meet a Russian girl at university 2 months ago. First time I meet her she was sitting outside on a bench alone so I approached and simply sat beside her and started reading a book. I had no intentions to talk to her or anything at all. Few minutes later, she asked me where do students have lunch normally in this university. After talking for few min, we decided to have lunch. I negged her, and I think she liked me after doing few routines and negs on her. Took her back to uni, and we exchanged numbers. 2 days I saw her and we decided to hang out that night. I called at 5 she didnt answer, went to the gym , cam back had 4 missed calls from her. Went out with her and her friend,smoked shisha, and took them back to her friends home. they asked me to come up, i said I can only stay for 10 min . She was flirting with me all night, no kisses but she was punshing me, trying to reach my penis when i told her I am in charge her, hugging me, heard her telling her friend I am better than her current bf.
Anyway, my mistake was after I told them i was leaving they said you can stay over if you want, I didn't :S I have a fucken chance for a 3some possibly and I missed it. She texted me later saying are you home?? they asked me if i wanted lunch next day I said i had plans. Anyways, after weeks of meeting her for coffee :S I know If i want to get her I shouldn't see her everyday but instead I did.. I liked her I really did.. She gave me all the IOIs I needed.. I pussied out from every chance I got. Then, she started acting weird not texting me back. So i said fuck it and a weekend passed without us texting. She saw me at uni, sat on my lap hugged me so hard and kept punshing me and giggling.. We had coffee at lunch, I had a plan to tell her : "Listen, some students around uni think we have a connection. I like you, you might like me too. and im ready to go to next level, but i feel like your playing some sort of games with me. Don't get me wrong I have the patience and I can play your game but at this time of the year I am really busy with exams and other shit. So when you think you are ready give me a call
" but i didnt I was so nervous and she noticed that too.. She told me are you ok? You feel uncomfortable! Later that week I saw her again on Friday( Her attitude toward me was the same as before, didnt notice any difference) and we decided to go out that night for drinks, and she told me to call her. I called her at 6, sent her a text saying hey your still for drinks tonight? 2 hrs later another one ok fine dont text back, see you later. sat passed no reply. Sunday passed no reply. Monday I saw her at college, she hugged me after lunch ( she had lunch with few boys from college) and she said why didn't you text me? I totally ignored her and said well i texted you on friday and you didnt reply back. She said um ok.. and then I ignored her beside our mutual mates and I kept talking to the other guys. I feel like she got pissed and she left without saying goodbye. All that was yesterday. Today, she did the same. She ignored me or tried. When i talk to her she answer the question only. Later I asked if she wants to have coffee? she said no i want to have sushii at the station so i said ok enjoy your meal see you later. and thats all ..
Guys, I really really like her, but all that time I was afraid of telling her or doing anything because she has a bf. But she has given me all the IOI. Please what do you suggest I do now? I neeed her back.. I can't keep ignoring her because she will eventually say fuck it and forget about me. and I can't follow her like a puppy. If you have any questions or u need any more info please let me know. I neeed this help a lot! Oh yea, im still a virgin, maybe thats why im so scared of being rejected!
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