So the girl I've been k closing...she's out tonight with a male friend (I'm not worried by it...he's been friend zoned and a good guy).


I last saw her saturday. Now my problem of course is getting her on a date just comprising no mutual friends - the 2 of us...I intend to sort that out tomorrow via phone call.


But since she's out tonight...should I text her? Or just wait for her to text first?


The sticking point is that shes out with someone who shes turned down/friend zoned (gave the 'really sweet guy' line).


---Thus, would I appear like I am needy or competing by texting?


I've been sexual towards her via text etc...she plays along with it. I think I'm close to sealing the deal but perhaps this could easily turn into a shit test...


Grazie

No, don't text her or call her or anything. Especially if she knows you know that she's out with another guy.

I'm cool with that.


But assuming she texts me?

I don't really understand, Is there a problem? obviously let her have the night with her friend zoned male friend. simple.