Here is my dilemna.

I went out one night with this female acquaintance of mine "Abigail" (who made it clear she wanted to F me).. I met up with her at this local sports bar and she was there with this friend of hers who is cute as hell "Sara". Now Abigail is kind of a chunky girl, not really my type but I would have been willing to shag her or at least get a gobby because I just got out of a LTR and needed some. Her friend Sara was thin, sexy, dark haired Italian girl who was funny, great conversationalist and basically captivated my attention.

That night before I went out Abigail's cellphone died and she was using Sara's to text me.. So the next day I text Sara's cell playing stupid "who is this, i have your number in my phone" and she responded, and then i was like "oh yea abigail's friend, i think you're cool and wouldn't mind hanging out sometime"
So Sara tells me she felt the same about me and that she felt awkward because her friend wanted me and was mad because I didn't make a move on her that night.

Ok, so anyway, fast forward- Sara and I hooked up a few times, F'd, and hung out and had a good time.. She went away to her families for Thanksgiving and when she came back we hooked up again. Well one night I went out to a club and Abigail was there flirting with me and basically got me wanting some action. I couldn't hang out with Sara that night because I didn't want to smother a good thing.

So I went to Abigail's crib that night and killed it.

A few nights later Sara supposedly found out and texted me-

"youre such a guy"

"and guys are stupid"

"don't you know girls talk"

I responded with, "yea and why am i stupid"

she replies, "lol youre not stupid but don't you realize women share info"

So on and so forth......

So I waited a few days and just called her now and she basically was happy and laughing until I brought up why she's so mad at me.. She said i was stupid and that if she had known that I was going to sleep with Abigail she would never have done anything with me. I tell her that I'm not interested in Abigail like that, but she said I still slept with her..

She is obviously butt hurt that i slept with her "friend" and pretty much told me that she still likes me and wouldn't mind hanging out with me but sex is no longer an option. I hung up the phone with her by agreeing with her, and that it's her choice, and she said she doesn't want to hurt Abigail and such n such


Could you guys give me some serious flipt the script advice here.. Because I like chilling with Sara and she is a SERIOUS piece of ass an HB10 for real..
How can I get back in the sack with this one?

Help.

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It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not.

Okay, you haven't done anything wrong. Since you're not in a relationship with either of them, so the sara chick has no reason to be mad.

But, it's your problem that she doesn't want to have sex with you anymore, you obviously should have thought this through, especially if you're not that attracted to the Abigail girl.

There's no magic bullet that's going to "get you back in the sack" You're just going to have to play it like any PUA would, keep escalating her, even if it's not leading to sex, keep things moving, don't get stuck in the stage of not doing anything physical and still hanging out with her.

I was with a girl who loved me, and i slept with another girl. she found out in the morning that i did her, she was devastated, but we still had sex that morning, and continued doing so for a while.

Okay, you haven't done anything wrong. Since you're not in a relationship with either of them, so the sara chick has no reason to be mad.

But, it's your problem that she doesn't want to have sex with you anymore, you obviously should have thought this through, especially if you're not that attracted to the Abigail girl.

There's no magic bullet that's going to "get you back in the sack" You're just going to have to play it like any PUA would, keep escalating her, even if it's not leading to sex, keep things moving, don't get stuck in the stage of not doing anything physical and still hanging out with her.

I was with a girl who loved me, and i slept with another girl. she found out in the morning that i did her, she was devastated, but we still had sex that morning, and continued doing so for a while.

So, how am I suppose to go about this.. I'm still new at this stuff and it's going to take a lot of rejection and failures to get where I want to be. How would I keep "escalating" her even if it doesn't lead to sex?? Wouldn't that get me stuck in the "no sex stage"? I mean when I hung up with her shit was awkward, do I call her down the road, or see if she calls me? Damn lol..

How would I go about keeping things moving..
I totally realize that I made the mistake, I knew girls gossip. Except Sara didn't have the heart to tell her chubby friend Abigail that she banged me first.

So what do you think would be the best way to go about this, any ideas you could bless me with?

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It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not.

You call her. You lead.
Of course you will have a lot of rejection in your life, everyone does, it's the only way you'll ever get anywhere.
You're trying to make it as sexual as possible, if it leads to sex, that's fine, but if it doesn't, you can still have even more sexual tension their, because you haven't relieved it, which makes her want more.
Keep arranging meets with her, don't act like banging her friend was a big problem, the less you act like it matters, the less she'll think it matters.
Don't suck up to her, don't come across needy, treat it as her problem.
You can still support her in her problem, that's fine, but don't take the burden on yourself
This may sound like a bad idea, if you're new to everything, but it's the best thing you can do, and the most alpha behavior.